What do I do?

[Ilovepugs123]

I'm in a sticky situation, I like this guy and we started chatting with each other on Bumble a couples of days before Valentine's day, he's an amazing guy but I have been noticing that he will message me on Snapchat and then just leave me on Read without saying he's busy or anything and it gets annoying and sometimes he doesn't even reply back and I can tell he really likes me but he only messages me when he feels like it and today I had asked him if he would mind next Saturday if we can hang out but also have my friend and her fiancee come along because I want to be safe and comfortable and be able to get to know him and I told him if he is okay with that and he said I think so and then I asked him what he wanted to do on Saturday and he left me on reading, I really like this guy and I really want to try with him but I'm scared of getting hurt again and I don't know if I should wait till he sends me a message later on or message him and ask him whats going on, I don't know. If I wait for him to message me again then I plan on being honest with him but I don't know What should I do? I need advice.

[gabrielle00]

I would wait till he messages you. if it’s been a couple of days, then message him first and ask what’s going on. who knows he could be going through his own stuff or may just not be the best planner. another thing u can do is plan your date (have the activity set, time set, location set) and ask if he’s cool with it so then he doesnt have to make all of the decision.

[Ilovepugs123 in reply to gabrielle00]

I'll wait till he messages me because he did message me dismorning and maybe he is busy plus he did say that he does have a hard time finding social life vs, marine life because he is in the Marines but he told me he wasn't working today so I assumed he would be messaging me and all that but ill wait then ill ask my friend what she wants to do and then bring it up to him, Thank you for the advice.

[gabrielle00 in reply to Ilovepugs123]

that sounds like a good plan. let us know how it goes!

[Ilovepugs123 in reply to gabrielle00]

Ok, I will.

[Crochet1957 in reply to gabrielle00]

I would wait I know it seems like playing games but he should be polite and message you back

[Ilovepugs123 in reply to Crochet1957]

That is true, plus I don't want to bother him and last Saturday he kinda did the same thing and he ended up messaging me later on so maybe he will do that I don't know.

[Isinatra in reply to Ilovepugs123]

Try to be a little unavailable. If he’s interested, it’ll make him wonder what’s going on. ❤️🏄‍♀️

[Ilovepugs123 in reply to Isinatra]

That is true. Thank you