Feeling alone

[Mrspjsmom]

My husband works the night shift. He has always worked that shift since he became a nurse. Tonight for some reason I wish he didn't. Had a sinus headache and fell asleep before he left for work. Now I am awake and desperately wish he was home. Still feeling a bit under the weather but I can't fall asleep and I feel very alone. More than usual. I thought I was used to his schedule after 32 years but I guess at times it still bothers me.

[Agora1]

Mrspjs, Hi dear, whenever we are sick, we all seem to want someone around for the comfort and understanding. For many of us, this stems back to our early childhood when we were cared for by our parents (esp mom) Getting hurt as well as being sick always felt better after a hug. I'm glad you reached out to us. Sending you a warm hug. You are going

to be okay. You are not alone. We are here with you. xx

[Mrspjsmom in reply to Agora1]

Thank you.

[Agora1 in reply to Mrspjsmom]

Mrspjs I like that idea from "endofheartache" as to a cup of tea. I will add to that

a warm towel just out of the dryer and wrapped around your shoulders as you sip

on the tea. Self soothing. I hope it helps with your sinus headache as well. xx

[Hidden]

I am sorry you are struggling right now. I know how you feel. I don't have many friends and I go weeks without talking to anyone at times. It becomes very overwhelming and depressing, especially when you are sad or sick. I remember one night I was having a breakdown and all I wanted was for someone to be there with me to hold me and tell me it was going to be okay. But the realization that I didn't have that was so painful. It hurt worse than the initial breakdown because I knew I was truly alone. I am sorry you are struggling and I know it's tough. Maybe take this time to do something good for yourself. I know you said you didn't feel well but even something as simple as drinking a hot tea can be very relaxing and comforting.

[Agora1 in reply to Hidden]

That sounds like a perfect self comfort thought. A cup of hot tea, relaxing and comforting. xx

[Mrspjsmom in reply to Hidden]

I just came from the kitchen with a cup of green tea lol

[Hidden in reply to Mrspjsmom]

Well that sound just lovely and what a coincidence. Great minds think alike and all that lol