How will I cope with this??

[Finn7]

Hey!I have been in love with a girl for six year's but lately she changed cut me off and now I can't figure out what to do,,I am in love with her but she doesn't want anything to do with me am depressed can't even find my real me,help please!

[yellowbee4]

hey, I understand and I know it's hard when you build a feeling of codependency with someone. But the key thing to know/learn is a person isn't made for another person. just like no one expects you to love them, you shouldn't expect the same. Ya it's not what anyone wants to hear but its what's fair. people are not supposed to love someone just cause the other loves them. you need to let that person have freedom.

and though you love her, you'll love again. against popular belief a person can fall in love as many times as their heart allows.

I know it hurts but I promise someone else will come when its the perfect time.

[Finn7 in reply to yellowbee4]

Even though it's hard for me to,I think I should consider your advice since she doesn't want anything to do with me,

[yellowbee4 in reply to Finn7]

as the saying goes "If you love someone, set them free"

[Finn7 in reply to yellowbee4]

Perfect,,let me wait for my turn.

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She ain't the Great girl you think she is..

Cut her out too

[Finn7 in reply to Hidden]

That's The problem it's hard for me to,

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It's gonna hurt bad at first of course..

Then you'll feel so much better...

[Hidden in reply to Finn7]

Then she'll call you 2,000 times, like my x did to me.

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I want you Back - I want you Back !!!

Sorry gals, but she left me..

I only responded

Catman

[Elle_Luv]

I’m going to give you some really tough advice. No one is going to love you the way you want until you do. This takes time, and it’s difficult with a mental illness, but it is possible and it is 100% worth it.

[Finn7 in reply to Elle_Luv]

Even if she keeps showing me the hate, something is still pushing me to her,

[Elle_Luv in reply to Finn7]

I’ve been there. I’ve been in love with guys that were 100% shitty with them in my life. But trust me, someone will treat you better. Someone will treat you the way you want to be treated, but you have to show them how first

[Ayupduck]

Hi Finn7

You have so much to offer please don’t waste your heart and tender feelings on a partner who does not care for your affections.

The intention to put up with anything that your partner does just to stay in the relationship is a poor intention, I got told my wife of 37 years has never had any Love or sympathy For me. It’s ok no problem I saw my 3 boys grow to men and have a family of their own.

You will never get rid of that Hurt you are feeling but it will turn into a teeny twinge You get every now and then. Be Proud walk tall and be very very careful who has the key to your Heart , your X partner has no idea of What THEY have lost. Keeping that horrible gut wrenching feeling down is not easy but will get easier. Concentrate on now time and good luck

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