Still under the same roof

[BeachSeaSky]

Hi ya guys,

I left a post a couple of Weeks ago, about my 14 year marriage and 20 year friendship, to an end, three months ago my wife said she wanted to move on without me in her life,I have two children 14 and 15, my wife has been seeing other people and lying to us all about where she has been,A couple of weeks ago when I plucked up enough courage to tell her that she needed to go, And she toke an over dose of pain killers and Spent 12 hour in hospital

She is still under the same roof

Any advice how to deal with this situation

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You need help with her a doctor or psychiatrist - you can stay with her but you must make your demands known - only do if you can cope with situation or otherwise look for people to help her

[catch_the_music]

Sorry that all this happened to you and your family. You can pull out of this difficult situation- but you will need help. Seek guidance from a Pastor or counselor. Find someone who can Listen to you and Pray over your family and marriage. Find someone who can give you the most optimistic outlook on the situation. Your wife needs help. You and your family need help. Do the best for the kids too. You will need to start forgiving your wife (Pastors/counselors can help you here). Your wife will need to seek your forgiveness and recommit to your marriage.

You can save your marriage - if you and your wife are willing. Your marriage needs a new perspective. I recommend checking out marriage seminars. "Weekend to Remember" is a Christian based seminar that is so good at giving Hope and encouragement to Renew the Relationship. Taught by people who have turned their own marriages around - with God's help. Prayer is central to turning things around for the best. It takes awhile - hold on to Hope! Prayers for all to turn out for the best! God Bless!

[BeachSeaSky in reply to catch_the_music]

Thank you