Going through a break up?

The boy in the ford that I told you guys about. Although we ended it a few weeks ago, when I have nights like this. I think about him. Although we aren’t together, he was the only person in my life that had real conversations with me when I felt too awkward to talk to anyone else and others wouldn’t continue conversations with me in real life. We’d talk for hours. Everyone is special but we definitely can make someone more than what they truly are, then we only hurt ourselves. I’m at peace again, and I thank this supportive community for that. I thought I’d share a little piece of my life. And if you’re going though a break up, it can feel like the end of the world when in reality; we might just be moving towards something that is better suited for us. Someone who won’t leave you when you’re most vulnerable or someone who doesn’t make you feel self doubt in the most stressful time in your life. I’m praying for everyone one this site. Thank you for giving me a platform to express what I’m going through tonight.

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Sorry you’re going through a breakup. I’ve been debating whether I should break up with my boyfriend. It’s causing me so much anxiety to even do that because I feel so lonely without him.

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Being lonely can be very scary that is true, but just remember you can also be lonely already, in the relationship. I’m not familiar with your situation, but it sounds to me that there MAY be codependency. I could be wrong. If there is, this is not your fault and it could be really difficult to break the patterns you’ve learned in the past where you’ve attached yourself to someone to feel validated. you were created to build a life that you want and you can do that with or without him. After I ended things with my person I felt extremely lonely and I’m still hurt I don’t think that’s going to change. But I know for a fact it would have been worse staying with someone who looked at me as a possession. Your gut will tell you something’s wrong, it’s our job to act on it accordingly. I’m sorry that you have a lot of anxiety about the future regarding the relationship but you won’t be alone. You’ll have us here to support you with whatever you choose to do.

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You are quite the looker LGrace!!

I'd like to see him replace you

😜

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Haha thank you @catman22 I’m sure he already has but it is for the best

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I hope she likes his looks

I can be mean LGrace, when I feel they deserve it.

I read how you were so nice to someone in your same situation...