Honestly, I just hate myself - Anxiety and Depre...

Anxiety and Depression Support

89,745 members84,044 posts

Honestly, I just hate myself

mariraven profile image
3 Replies

I look in the mirror, i hate my image. I hate my hair, my weight, my acne, etc. I look at my life, and i just hate it here. I don’t have any friends anymore, my parents don’t allow me to enjoy life as a teen. I’m not allowed to go out and have fun. I can’t do anything, and all my teenage years have gone to waste. There’s nothing here to be happy about. And i hate everything that comes with being who i am. What’s even the point of living. This isn’t worth it.

Written by
mariraven profile image
mariraven
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
3 Replies
Kingston2018 profile image
Kingston2018

Please don't hate yourself. Life sometimes feels like it is harder than it should be. Look online for hair styles you may like, play with your hair and try new things. If your parents are not allowing you to go out, find something that YOU enjoy to do by yourself. I recently started jump roping and lost 15 lbs just learning tricks. It kept me focused on the rope and not all the other things around me. You have so much to offer yourself and others :)

Esda profile image
Esda

Life gives you an opportunity to find your purpose. There’s a reason you are alive. You have a beautiful soul and that will be w you throughout your journey. Our physical appearance changes over time but not your soul. Pls give yourself a chance to shine and you will cherish life itself.

Having a daily routine and infusing some outdoor time without electronics, appreciating nature, some quiet time is good for the mind, body, and soul.

I’ve been in this place before. I’h hear the messages ‘love yourself’ and be ‘body positive’ but really the first step is neutrality. I had major body image problems and found that looking at myself in the mirror and saying ‘I have [insert image concern here] and that’s ok’ was the baby steps I needed to get out of that dark place. It is possible, and it takes time, but you can get to a place where the intense hatred goes away. I promise.

You may also like...

I hate myself, I hate the world

want to die, my mum is the only thing keeping me life I wish I wanted to be alive for myself not...

I hate myself right now

and because of me we not together anymore. I hate myself for it. I hate myself for not doing more....

I hate myself

I hate myself i have for a while but ive tried to lean into it. This is defintsly a coping...

I hate myself

state filled with bigots. I don't have a single friend, I don't have a boyfriend, I can't...

I hate myself.

mental and physical health would have been good. And my family would have been happy. Had I known...