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[Shilpa08]

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Hii people today I really feel like killing my self I just got to know I am pregnant but I am very sad as I don’t want this child because I am myself not happy within and I don’t love my husband and I am planning to leave him..but at same time I don’t know what will I do alone as I am never satisfied and always compare and never happy it’s been 5 yrs since I am sad I have no frnds and what will happen in my future...I don’t think I can love anyone because I don’t love myself at all..gosh I am sacred just want to die

[Shnookie]

Hi this is Shnookie. I’m here 4 U. I’m so sorry that U R feeling this way. I need to ask U something’s. R U thinking of taking

your life now ? Or is this an idea U have in your head 4 sometime in the future ?

Right now do U have a plan on how U want to hurt yourself ? Do U have a timeline on

when U would want to do this ? Is there

anyone at home with U and take U to a hospital or crisis center? Remember I’m

in your corner and want to help and comfort U and talk about what U R going thru right now. Please reply back to me

right away. Hugs 🤗 shnookie

[Shilpa08 in reply to Shnookie]

Dying is just in my head I am not doing anything but I really don’t want to live this life...I am never happy whatever I get..I have no love and care for anyone...I always see flaws in people

[Shnookie in reply to Shilpa08]

Thank U so much for replying back. Without being nosy R U taking any

anti-depressants or under a therapist’s care? Everyone in this world is flawed in some way. At the same time U see the flaws, do U ever see positive things about

the person ? Also if U R pregnant now, there R hormonal issues here as well.

The fact that U posted your feelings in the support can be seen as a cry for

help and a desire to connect with a

sympathetic person who would like to comfort U and help U get thru this challenging time in your life. I’m in your corner. Hugs 🤗 Shnookie 💪🐶😄

[Shilpa08 in reply to Shnookie]

Just got sonography done I am not pregnant I am so relived but my husband and I had a fight

[Wiganladlovesapie]

Hi Shilpa. I’m Andy.

Firstly you are not alone. So take comfort in that. We are here. And these wonderful people here, surround you when you feel like there is no hope, or way out.

I’m relieved when you say that the thought of dying is just in your head. This does not mean that it is not to be taken seriously. It’s there, but let’s keep it there. If this thought keeps reoccurring then please tell the group.

The baby. Has come at a time when everything is up in the air. You are not happy in your marriage, you have fallen out of love and are planning on leaving.

You are pregnant, fact. But you have choices. And they should be thought about very seriously.

I don’t know if you have sought help? Seen your G.P? Or a Councillor? But clearly this is something that needs the help of a professional. You need to be looked after especially as you are pregnant. So maybe consider your next move to be just that, get help, for you and your child.

With help may start to heal, repair, and hopefully grow to accept your future arrival.

This is your choice, your body. But please reach out for help as soon as possible.

I wish you peace and good health.

Keep talking, we are here.

Andy🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

[Shilpa08]

Thank you everyone for replying everyone and all the love but now I am not pregnant the blood report was wrong now sonography report has come it shows I am not pregnant such a relief

[momofjust2boys]

I'm glad that you found out you're not pregnant-it sounds like that is a relief for you. I'm sorry you and your husband are fighting and that you want to die. I think most of us at times have thoughts like you are having-you definitely are not alone. There is some great advice already posted-I hope that you will talk to a professional counselor about your feelings. And please post back and let us know how you are doing.

[Shilpa08 in reply to momofjust2boys]

Hiii thank you for the concern but my feelings are very weird I just want someone to talk to me personally

[Shnookie]

Hi Shilpa. It's Shnookie again. Happy that U R feeling better. I agree with Momo about reaching out to a professional counselor, but U need to do things at your own pace. Just know that there is a community here that supports you and sends you good karma

[Shilpa08 in reply to Shnookie]

Thank you Shookie but here at my in laws I can’t consider a counsellor I just need someone to talk

[Shnookie in reply to Shilpa08]

I understand. Know that I’m always in your corner. U R a strong woman 💪