I AM SO SAD RIGHT NOW

I am hurting so much right now. So much. I feel like Im falling apart

[Hidden]

I have no one. I know people say that and they often do but I really do not have even one person to call. I have no family and not even one friend.

[AnIslandOfPeace]

Wow. I see even with your pains, you're trying to help me go through mine. You'll be fine, love. And I could be your friend.. if you don't mind. We could talk about anything and everything. We could have each other and find some sort of security. You're a great person, don't forget. Thanks a lot. ❤️

[Hidden in reply to AnIslandOfPeace]

Thank you. That would be nice.

[Hidden]

Thank you. Yes there is so many here and I am grateful to have this community now. I have been so alone and have not been able to get any of my thoughts out. Well I mean to another human being

[mvillarreal]

What's wrong? Has something triggered the sadness, or is it "just" a bout of depression (I say "just" because an untriggered depressive episode is often just as bad, if not worse than, a depressive episode)? I'm sorry you're having a hard time. Take care of yourself.

[Hidden in reply to mvillarreal]

I am physically so alone. ALONE I have not one friend. No family. No one. I cant even call anyone cause there is no one to call. A person cant live like this forever. Its not healthy to not have even one friend to talk to

[mvillarreal in reply to Hidden]

Oh no! I imagine that's really, really hard! Humans are social animals, and if we don't socialize, it does take a toll on our mental health. Do you happen to live anywhere near Greeley, Colorado? I would be more than happy to meet with you if you're anywhere near me, so long as you are comfortable with that. Is there any social activity you might be interested in doing where you could meet people? Religious worship? Book clubs? Yoga classes? Anything like that? The pandemic, of course, doesn't help, since we're still isolated a lot because of it, but even finding something through Zoom might be better than nothing at all. What do you think?

[Hidden in reply to mvillarreal]

My health keeps me limited right now but I know it will change. Thank you so much for your kindness

[mvillarreal in reply to Hidden]

Oh man. That might be contributing to the depression too. Sorry to hear you're having health challenges as well. Hope you get well soon!

[Hidden in reply to mvillarreal]

Thank you. <3

[Cookie101]

Rainbows, I don't have any friends myself. I don't socialise because I don't like crowds and my interests are rarely shared by others. I therefore don't have the same feelings about loneliness that you have. I do understand your need for company though. It's something that many people are struggling with, particularly at the moment. I don't know where you live. Every country has different ways of dealing with the pandemic at the moment. Perhaps look at something your interested in and find some online groups? You can find groups in your area through a site like meetup.com/ . They will have both online and local groups where you can share your interests and perhaps find some new ones. I find that working with my hands keeps my brain focused and occupied. There is also a forum on Healthunlocked called Positive Wellbeing During Self-Isolation. They are an excellent bunch of people with lots of positive ideas and inspiration which could help you as well. I've not really been active on that site but I enjoy reading what people have been getting up to. It makes me smile.

[Hidden in reply to Cookie101]

Thank you for your words

[Want2BHappy3]

Are You in counseling? Unfortunately that comes with anxiety.

[Hidden in reply to Want2BHappy3]

I am but only online right now

[Want2BHappy3 in reply to Hidden]

Is face to face?

[LoveStill]

I believe I understand you. I don't want to make this about me, but I've often wondered if I'm the only one that has ever been so alone through life. Why can't we find the likes and form that support system so many of us lack? Sending you a hug and offering you my friendship.

[Hidden in reply to LoveStill]

Thank you and thank you for the hug. I send one back to you

[Meganhw]

Thinking of you

[Hidden in reply to Meganhw]

Thank you for your kindness