No sense

[Pastelpurple]

My dad treated me like shit growing up and now I have a boyfriend and he treats me like shit and my dad treats me like shit because my boyfriend treats me like shit....... I don’t understand and it’s taking a toll on my mental health because both my family is toxic and my love life and I feel like I have no where to run to

[Eagledove]

My Dad treated me poorly too most of the time; abusive.

We have to recognize at some point that we are the most important person; to put our selves and our dignity first. Not always be people pleasers. Others can be selfish and bully and shit on you if you let them.

[Pastelpurple in reply to Eagledove]

What can I do, sometimes I want to leave but I feel mentally weak that I can’t

[Eagledove in reply to Pastelpurple]

It’s not at all easy when you are not mentally strong. But it’s better to deal with it and feel like crap for a short time rather than accept it and have low self esteem and feel like crap for a long time.

[MCat22]

It makes sense to me that you would pick someone like your father. It's familiar. It's what you know. It's hard to go your own way but if your boyfriend treats you poorly, you need to let him go. Try to focus on improving yourself. Good luck

[FearIsALiar]

How are you doing now? I’m dealing with toxic family issues right now and I have no where to turn to..I feel awful

[Thehighlowroller]

Your better than that, trust yourself. Biggest thing I had to overcome, family is who treats you as family. Family that doesn’t are not family, you choose to weed out the shit bags. They don’t deserve you