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Yesterday we took my sweet kitten Betsey to the vet... she had had been acting funny... not eating much... threw up a couple of times... we just got the call she isn't breathing well & the best thing is to put her to sleep. My husband just left to be with her couldn't bring myself to go.... a got her 12 years ago...same year when my mental health got real real bad ....😭

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maslater

Oh so sorry for you. Sending you positivity.

A little send off for pusscat helps us. We walk round the grave throwing flowers on it to help us grieve. Hope you feel better soon.

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Mcats

I'm so sorry to hear about Betsey. Maybe her job of bringing joy to you and helping you is over, like maybe that was her mission. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers. Mel

Dear Mel

So sorry, this is such a shock for you .

My Deepest Sympathy on the tragic, sudden loss of your

Precious Betsey

🌸🌼🌸🌼🌸🌼🌸

xXx

I am so sorry to hear of your cat’s passing and would like to offer my deepest condolences, Melbrown. I know how painful it is to lose a beloved pet, as I have had many beloved animals. And, I, also, am grieving for a beloved pet right now, as my beloved goldfish just passed away, 2 weeks ago. I know there are some who might not understand, but I loved that fish like a dog or a child....and I miss him terribly. Again, I want to offer my deepest sympathy, but also know that you will see her again, someday, in heaven. God Bless You, Melbrown! ❤️❤️❤️

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melbrown in reply to MidnightBriarRose

Sorry for your lost too. ❤

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MidnightBriarRose in reply to melbrown

Thank you so much. ❤️

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Mary-intussuception in reply to MidnightBriarRose

Sorry for your loss of your

Precious Goldfish x

🌷🌿🌷🌿🌷

xXx

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MidnightBriarRose in reply to Mary-intussuception

Thank you so very much, Mary-intussuception. ❤️

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fauxartist

I'm so sorry Mel....I really am....I know how it is to lose your baby cat....it's heart breaking....I really feel for you.

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melbrown in reply to fauxartist

Thanks Fauxartist... been super hard, especially with the times we're in. She was a bright spot in a dark year... been feeling so guilty, like I let her down...

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Mary-intussuception in reply to melbrown

You didn't let her down. You loved her dearly and need to allow yourself time to grieve your loss x

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melbrown in reply to Mary-intussuception

Thanks Mary... I'm having a hard time seeing that right now.

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fauxartist in reply to melbrown

You didn't let her down my friend....I went through that too....it was just their time to go....we had no control over that....the reality is...they are always with us....

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melbrown in reply to fauxartist

It hurts so much... it was even hard to be at the office today. I have a picture of her up... my beautiful little girl.❤

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fauxartist in reply to melbrown

I know, and I'm so sorry for your loss Mel....

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melbrown in reply to fauxartist

Thanks dear friend.... our friendship means a lot.❤❤❤

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fauxartist in reply to melbrown

to me too my friend

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kenster1

hi mel gosh sorry to hear that heaven has another furry friend.god bless and take care.

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melbrown in reply to kenster1

Thanks Kenster...💛

I'm so sorry... pet's really are the best... prayers & hugs!🙏🙏

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Starrlight

❤️

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KatyKeene

I'm sorry . I can't imagine the pain.

I recently lost someone too, I think what comforts me is that she lived a happy life, I hope you find comfort too.

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bm25

So sorry to hear, I work in the animal industry and I unfortunately have to be exposed to events like you are currently going thru, its not easy and can be the hardest times to get thru, I hope you find peace in knowing she had a very long happy life that YOU gave her, take care and reach out if you need any help.

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melbrown in reply to bm25

Thank you for the reply... It's been hard. Finally not crying every time I see her picture. Thank you for the job you do. Take care.

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