Not the type

[Ophtho10]

feeling like my girlfriend doesn’t want me or isn’t attracted to me because I’m not the type she usually goes for. I’m not feminine. I’m having a hard time disconnecting the two when it comes to intimacy.

[Hollygrl]

Sweetheart. ...your not alone. Im no one to give advice but i can see that if you have taken the time to so much as research or even post on here, that what your going through hurts. Im new to this whole site thing because im trying to stop and talk myself out of taking my own life and your post made me sad for you so i thought id say .someone will love you if they dont already.dont give up

[Ophtho10 in reply to Hollygrl]

Thank you❤️

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It may be she is now looking a different type of person. Try not to question that you are unsuitable especially if the relationship is strong. Move on with this person and enjoy each others company

BOB

[beanjack]

Rejection is bloody hard. I’ve been reeling for months from being told that she wasn’t attracted to me. For some of us it really hurts badly... for me it’s low self confidence that honestly pretty much anyone is surprised about. But mate even though it hurts, her brain isn’t perfect and probably wavers with confusion and indecision - which has nothing to do with you and is no sign that you’re not good enough. You’re a champion so carry on mate.

[Ophtho10 in reply to beanjack]

Thank you