Love and Lie,s

[gerrerd]

As some of you know I took a giant step and began a relationship with a lady. Well all was well until I noticed little lie,s began to become more and more ! into play, I made the lady aware of this ! everything settled down then. but after a while they started again ! Having had a relationship years ago that turned into a nightmare due to Lie,s and cheating, this lady was the main cause of me not entering into a relationship, To protect my mental health, and gave me trust issue,s also ! So to cut a long story short I have ended the relationship before it develops into a nightmare. Trust is vital to me. Ray

[Hidden]

Good for you. Protect yourself. You know what's not good for you.

[gerrerd in reply to Hidden]

Yes thanks, xxx

[Agora1]

Ray, I didn't know you had started a relationship. But I fully agree with

you in that once the lies start, trust goes out the window. There cannot

be a relationship if there is no trust. You are a wise man and I commend

you for taking that step. Better now in breaking it off than down the road.

You deserve only the best. xx

[gerrerd in reply to Agora1]

Thank you my friend xxxx

[Jumprope14]

Your a good man. I have read some of your posts and I can see you just want to help people. You deserve better. I can say from experience if a relationship starts out that way it's not going to get any better. When they start off with a lie it doesn't getter better!

[gerrerd in reply to Jumprope14]

Thank you

[Poodie]

Hi gerrerd.

That is too bad. Don’t let it discourage you from meeting someone good and honest.

I think it was wise of you to exit the relationship. I try to remember this:

Fool me once, shame on you

Fool me twice, shame on me.

Take care.

[Dolphin14]

It's good you stayed tuned into the issue. Better to move on than continue with doubts.

[Hidden]

You so right, trust is what everyone needs❤️

[Nathan53]

Hi Ray Sorry to hear things didn't work out but a relationship is so life changing that it has to be right. It was the only thing you could do but non the less hard. Well like I am sure many others on here as I am are thinking of you Ray so give yourself lots of care and hang in there. Very best wishes and positive thoughts to you

[gerrerd in reply to Nathan53]

Thanks

[Hidden]

Phew! That was a narrow escape!

[cmfr]

Yes I interview now .. meaning no rush ing in.. as give people enough time , they will tell you who they are. I have side stepped 2 people in the last two weeks. Easier to let go when not emotionally invested.

[gerrerd in reply to cmfr]

Very true.