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Hi friends, struggling today... feeling very flat , lonely and scared of the future..

having lots of regrets... it’s playing havoc with my mindset and I’m having lots of twitching and trembling... palpitations .. the whole I want to run but where to ??? I miss my children so much 😓

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Jaxs050783

Hi

I’m currently going through a divorce and I’m experiencing a lot of the same emotions as yourself.

Stay strong

X

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1973m in reply toJaxs050783

Are you.. it’s horrible isn’t it!

I’ve been a mum for 19 years a wife for 23 ..together 25 !!

I’m still a mum but there not with me .. I’ve lost my family, home and pets .. feel so isolated where I am .. my only constant is my job ... but struggling with concentration!

Keep waiting for the light to shine ..

It’s good to get another perspective.. but I’m sad you’re going through it too .. thought it gives me some thought that I’m not the only one. Thank you for your message

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Jaxs050783 in reply to1973m

Hi again

I have two boys 8 and 11 which I see a couple of times a week which destroys me.

I’ve been married since ‘06

I live in a remote village in Somerset so it’s not exactly banging here😂

My concentration/memory wavers on how stressed I feel.

Please message if u ever want to talk

Tony

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1973m in reply toJaxs050783

Thank you.. I’m sad you’re in the same position.. because I know how much it hurts .. two boys how lovely 😊 I have one of each .. not seen either of them for 10 days ..😞

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You are so brave. Hope you have access to kids and can see them when you want. They still love you. You are not to blame. It's being made the big bad wolf that can damage your relationships. In-laws can cause havoc but so do clashes with your partner.

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Starrlight

((((((((((( ❤️ hug ❤️)))))))))) I’m so sorry you are struggling. I think today is all we have but I understand it’s hard not to be looking back and forward. I’m sorry you are missing your kids. I’m here to listen any time if you’d like to talk more.

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kenster1

hi I feel lonely a lot even at home with my kids mrs and dog our minds can be a lonely place at times.my old teacher told me don't regret the things you did or didn't do grasp the things and opportunities you can do.

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1973m

Hi kenster 1

It’s amazing how alone you can feel among friends and family. I am trying hard to grasp opportunities.. just sad it had to be this way . Thank you for replying I hope you find some peace somewhere and not be so lonely..

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CanuckAnon

🤗 stay strong....

I’m sorry for how you feel.

Sending gentle hugs 🤗

Hoping something gives, and you feel,better soon xx

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1973m in reply to

Thank you Olivia40 .. hope that you are ok .

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CNDmoonchild

And for yourself and your child.....inspire and fight for what you told your children to believe in. Living the moment and see the positive you can make from it. Remember that it is how we handle the small battles that wins the war. One day at a time and be thankful for all the good that you have. I have to practice the same and I insist on sharing my smile.

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1973m

How lovely thank you

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Funkyfaerie

That light you speak of, it is there. But we have to carry on until we reach it.

When I was left alone a friend said there is light at the end of the tunnel and there was.

I would go out with work friends, have nice time, but feel lonely in a crowd, and worse when I got home alone.

All you can do for now as moonchild says one day at a time...

It will get better, hang on in there! X

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1973m

Thank you., your so kind ☺️

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utep99

You so not need to fear the future. Regrets are in the past. Tell God about them and accept the fact that God forgives all sins and puts everything to rest. If the worst comes you can spend eternity in a place of no pain or sickness. I know this sounds preachy but it worked for me. God sees your future and not your past and you can get forgiveness for everything that you have done.

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1973m

🙏🏻

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