GRIEVING

[sweetiepye]

A quote I felt like sharing.....

If you simply can't understand

why someone is grieving so much,

for so long, then consider yourself

fortunate that you do not

understand.

In memory of Jack

[Hidden]

I agree. I grieve every day and no one understands

[RcKitty]

yes , grief is unrelenting... it's been 7 years since my mom passed. she was emotionally abusive but i would have her back in a second because i just want to be with her again and tell her i am sorry for being a disappointment... Trigger warning ; i still feel that i want to be with her, by me not being on earth , that in the afterlife we would finally have the relationship both of us yearned for or at least i did, that she understands me now in heaven, but then i hear her voice telling me i cannot think this, that she wants me y

o find happiness on earth first. sorry, grief is soul crushing and somedays i dont think i can do it anymore

[sweetiepye in reply to RcKitty]

I had the same type of relationship with my Mother and I also would have her back. I simply loved her more than I hated her abuse. Some day we will have another chance with our Mothers. Mine didn't know how to love . Pam

[Hidden]

Wow oh wow Pam that is so powerful..thank you so much....I'm not in the fortunate category so this hit me hard...once again..thank you! Grief is such a difficult challenge for so long , then I think does it ever really end because I still have those days about my mom, 31 years now...I'll always have those days here & there..yet you learn how to cope at one point one day..when the time is right for yourself..

May your day be beautiful.....

Sparkles & dump trucks Pam!

[Dolphin14]

Grief is so different for everyone. I grieve heavily some days and it's been a couple years.

When love is deep, grieving is unbearable.

[sweetiepye in reply to Dolphin14]

Yes, I have those days and I expect I always will.

[Hidden]

I truly appreciate this ❤️

[sweetiepye in reply to Hidden]

I hope it helps.

[Hidden in reply to sweetiepye]

I think it’s perfect ❤️

[LilyAnnepuppy]

Loss sucks

[sweetiepye in reply to LilyAnnepuppy]

precisely

[mrmonk]

Made me think of a Jack Kerouac quote a friend once repeated to me: "Accept loss forever" -- later, I would understand the full implications of that and how a loss never really leaves us. 😿

[sweetiepye in reply to mrmonk]

I' v never heard that before. Brutal and true.

[Natsteveo]

My mums been gone 13 years in March and I’ve never stopped grieving for her and I know I never will xx

[Hidden]

Beautiful

[Redheaded]

Amen