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Hi everyone. I wanted to let you know that my beautiful son died last week in a drug related accident. I’m devastated as you can imagine and don’t want to be on this planet anymore but I need to be here for my husband and daughter. Just feel like I now have to live with this heartache for the rest of my life on top of the anxiety and depression that I already live with.

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kleelibby

I’m so sorry for the loss of your son. Sending love and peace to your family💌

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tback715

My deepest condolences to you. I’m so sorry...I can’t imagine what you’re going through. I know the future you’re facing seems insurmountable. If you can, try to stay in the moment because thinking about the many days ahead is overwhelming. As they say in AA, one day at a time. You are loved. Ask for help when you need it. Care for yourself at least as fiercely as you care for everyone else. Loving yourself will be key to getting through this unimaginable period of deep grief. I’m sending much love and many virtual hugs to you, Thissucks37.

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FifLove

I’m so sorry for your loss. There is nothing we can say to take away your pain, but this a supportive place and we are here to listen anytime. I am new here as well and have found this forum to be a big help. Please try to take care of yourself, your son would want that.

The loss of anyone is hard but a child, no matter the age is a double whammy. I am so sorry you have to face this loss. My heart and thoughts are with you. I know it will often feel impossible and unbearable and it is, though many of us face the impossible every day and it proves it is possible. One day at a time and if need be one moment at a time. Much love and care your way.

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Dolphin14

I'm so sorry for your loss

So sorry for your loss. Sending prayers for you all 🙏

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mvillarreal

I'm so sorry to hear that! I can't promise you that it will ever stop being hard because grief is a life-long journey. I can say, however, in all probability, it will get better. At the beginning of the journey, it can feel like your world has been destroyed and there's no way you can ever be happy again. This is totally normal and is nothing to be ashamed of. Eventually, however, you do learn to live with the grief or even to integrate it into your life journey. I hope you're doing okay, and I'm wishing you love, light, and healing on your journey of grief. While the grieving process will likely get better over time, if it doesn't, or you're still not able to get out of bed after a year or something, it may be good to see a therapist to help you process. In fact, that actually might be good to do regardless, but I'm guessing it will get better.

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FearIsALiar

I’m so sorry. We are here for you!

He is in a better place now looking down and watching over you and your family.

It’s never easy losing someone you love but they will always be in the memory, never truly gone ❤️

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Muts

I am so so sorry for your loss I just pray you be strong through this tough situation

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