Hello I’m new sending love and looking for support

[Fairysnecklace]

hi there,

i’ve been battling depression and anxiety for several years now. After losing a job that was toxic and not getting into vet school i was in bad shape. I decided moving back home would be an unhealthy atmosphere since that’s where much of my trauma originated. Decided to move in with my bf of 9 years now instead . It’s been tough bc i’ve been trying to make a career change and a pivot, but it’s been difficult to find something i’m passionate about. Yesterday i got diagnosed with Adhd and PTSD as well. Which makes the idea of going back to school to get higher education almost a lost cause. I’ve been feeling very lonely. I’m currently unemployed searching for jobs and don’t really feel like i’m connected or have any friends where I live. It’s been very tough. Would love some suggestions and support for what you guys do when you feel lonely and what you guys do that you think helps when you’re going through a difficult time. Any love or support would be amazing. Sending love.

[NeuronerdDoaty]

Welcome. I’m glad you’re here.

My daughter went to vet school. Some of her schoolmates were on their 3rd and 4th try.

There are things for animals that don’t need vet school. Her best friend runs a charity for the state she lives in. She got an 18 month business degree. She makes a salary. She helps animals.

My husband and I run what we call the ‘Animal Railroad’. My daughter owns a vet clinic. Some people have to put their animals down bc they can’t afford the bills. She fixes the animal and we start the calls for who wants the animal. As soon as it’s healthy off it goes to its forever home after I get attached to it. 😁

I have a list of about 50 people now and they have lists as well.

Spend some time with yourself and find your passion. It’s important. Maybe the vet thing didn’t work because your real talent is coming to fruition.

Don’t sell yourself short.

Doaty 💛

[Fairysnecklace in reply to NeuronerdDoaty]

What you and you family does is incredible! You guys are helping those that don’t have a voice have a second chance at life. I admire you sharing, and thank you for your support

[NeuronerdDoaty in reply to Fairysnecklace]

I just got a call from her as it would happen. A Great Pyrenees / lab mix. I’m on it!

[MrZee]

Well I can certainly relate. I’ve had ADHD and PTSD all of my life.

Amazingly five years ago at 56 I went back to school “as an experimental life change.” I was convinced I’d do lousy. But it was the opposite. I made straight A’s and even got on the Dean’s List!

Thus, your going back to school I’m convinced you will do well. We ADHD’ers are rather smart people.

Your current unemployment and living situation is only temporary and it will get better in time. Sometimes we have to ride out the storm until it clears. And I’m optimistic your situation will only improve.

You’re determined and have a plan. That’s a great starting point back on the road to success.

Best,

-MZ ❤️

[Fairysnecklace in reply to MrZee]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Your story is definitely inspiring and proves it’s never too late to learn! I admire your strength and you give me hope that one day I’ll be able to be in a better place where I can go back to school and pursue my dreams.

[MrZee in reply to Fairysnecklace]

And I know you will. Perhaps as you progress, let us know here.

BTW, I’m maintaining a 3.9 GPA!

[Fairysnecklace in reply to MrZee]

Thanks I will! Thats wonderful, certainly something to be very proud of!

[MrZee in reply to Fairysnecklace]

Thank you. It’s been work... but the payoffs are wonderful 😊

[Hidden]

Welcome. When I feel lonely, I come on here

[Fairysnecklace in reply to Hidden]

Its my first time using this and so far it’s definitely something I feel comfortable using in the future as well

[Hidden in reply to Fairysnecklace]

I can relate to your story. I am a major introvert, yet I have really bad ADHD

[Epsom1 in reply to Hidden]

Same, it helps to know that other people understand

[All_alone]

Hi and welcome. I'm going to support your passion regarding animals, vet school and higher education. If your true passion and dream is vet school keep trying. There are many schools out there. I personally know two vets that went to school in the Caribbean because they could not get into a school in the US. Vet school is lengthy but also rewarding. There are also many other animal science degrees out there (from two to four yrs) that will give you a wonderful and rewarding career from vet tech, nutritionist, consulting, extension agent. Your possibilities are endless. You can overcome ADHD and PTSD and continue your education. Look at Temple Grandin and what she has accomplished. You can do anything you want. Go after your passion with a passion! ❤

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I agree 100% with All_alone . School could be just what you need. You'll make some new friends who share your interests and you'll be doing something you love. Don't lose heart.

My brother in law graduated with honors, made the Dean's list and it still took him 4 tries before he was accepted into the Vet's program. That's the only thing he ever wanted to do.We used to find him in the Doghouse when he was around 7 yrs. old.He was 34 when he finally got in.

[Epsom1]

When I'm lonely I watch Netflix then after a while it feels nice to think about something else and get absorbed in a good show. Using this site makes feel better sometimes, it feels like a distant support network. I come here when I feel good and bad. When I feel good I like to help others on here. When I feel bad the support of people on here helps me too.