Well last night was the night!

[Boomba76]

Wife wants a separation... I am totally lost right now, drowning in all of these thoughts. This is such a horrible thing to go through and it is double that when you already have anxiety and depression..

I guess I keep finding the lowest place I’ve ever been in my life. It seems to be each new day right now!! ☹️☹️

[NourD95]

Try to find the way that makes you happy, If the separation will makes you happier or more comfortable just do it and im sure you will find the right person who will help you in what you’re going through.

Best wishes

[Boomba76 in reply to NourD95]

Thank you for the reply.

[Agora1]

I'm sorry it's come to this Boomba76. Even when we expect things to happen, it

still feels like we were punched in the stomach. As low as you feel now, know that

you must take it one step at a time to climb out of this dark place that you are in.

In order to think more clearly, you need to keep your head on straight. You need

to take care of you right now. You are important. You deserve the best life has

to offer. It's going to take some time, some stamina from yourself but stay strong,

stay positive my friend. We are here to support you. xx

[Boomba76 in reply to Agora1]

Thank you Agora1!! I know I will make it through this but when you are on the downward spiral it hurts soooo bad! It’s so sad how it takes a separation or divorce before you realize and appreciate all that you had...

[Agora1 in reply to Boomba76]

I know dear friend, I know.

[Hidden]

Most folks don’t like being alone because they might not love themselves. I don’t love being alone and didn’t like my own seperatjon or divorce or the parenting classes I had to take. It’s just a part of life. Sort of like high school. You know people do grow apart. Energy does change, the only thing we can count on is that things change.

Hang in there God walks with you every step. With God there is love and men and women aren’t just for each other first they are for God. He likes it when we are busy when we pray when we create things or if we help people.

god likes when we do the things on his list. Ya I don’t have a church but I know that list by heart. 1) clothe the naked

2) visit the sick 3) house the homeless 4) visit a prisoner5) bury the dead 6) feed the hungry 7) love God with all your heart and soul, forgive an enemy.

[Boomba76 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you for this thoughtful reply! This is great advice and I will take some to heart.

[Hidden]

I went through this back in 2015 I know how it feels..I nearly almost killed the guy and drugged myself to death because all I wanted to do was feel good. The feeling is unbearable....here we are together again today and it seems like I want to be the one to leave now...honestly I was broken and she caused me this way so what the hell...live it up brother