last night

[Rufus07]

last night my sig. other had friends over, about 10😬. They usually hang out outside but due to the chilly weather, they were all in my tiny house. I don’t do good with crowds so I was in my bedroom which is right off the living room. I thought I was going to lose my mind it was so loud for hours! I know it was making S.O nervous but it’s not like he could tell them to be quiet. I understand that. They were all having a good time which made him feel good . They all left about 11 pm with 2 of them here until about midnight. It was quite then. I finally was able to sleep👍. Not a good night!

[Agora1]

Oh I hear you Rufus...tiny house and all, I've never been able to enjoy having people over

and yet they all seem to have a good old time. lol

The problem is feeling trapped and not being able to leave when I want.

You did good Rufus xx

[Rufus07 in reply to Agora1]

I really dont think I did good. I had to let the dog out meaning I had to leave the bedroom. I put my robe on, left the room and made no eye contact or said a word. It was very hard to do that. Anxiety was very high. Feeling trapped is exactly how I would explain how I felt!

[Downandout123 in reply to Rufus07]

You did really well! If it was me, I would have had to leave the room fully dressed and made up!! Lol

[Rufus07 in reply to Downandout123]

That’s funny! All our friends have seen me in my bathrobe a thousand times so it doesn’t even phase me.

[Downandout123 in reply to Rufus07]

👍

[CanYouHearMe]

does you S.O. Understand how this makes you feel? Sorry you had a rough evening

[Rufus07 in reply to CanYouHearMe]

He does and he apologized. I told him it won’t happen again. It’s either someone else’s house or get the heater going in the garage.

[CanYouHearMe in reply to Rufus07]

That is good. At least he respects your feelings. Glad he is supportive.

[Rufus07 in reply to CanYouHearMe]

He is both. I feel so bad for him because he is the type to want to fix things and there is nothing he can do to get me out of this depression.