Making bad decisions

[Darknlovely504]

I hate vulnerability. It gets me in trouble I'm to trusting at times. It always blow up in my face.

[Sunshine425]

My problem is expecting too much of people. The fact is most humans only care about themselves. Its hard at times to find people who consistantly have your back. The fact is all we can do is stay in our own lane and not dwell or worry too much.

I know, from experience... easier said than done. It takes years of practice. But once you accept you HAVE control over your feelings and DONT have control over the actions of others.... you feel some relief. Dont let people rain on your life. Get that "umbrella out" People sting.

[Darknlovely504 in reply to Sunshine425]

Great response. So true. I need to do the same asap

[Sunshine425 in reply to Darknlovely504]

💛 Im glad. I like your username.

We all come from a dark place....

But I hope youll find lovely people on here.

There are compassionate people in this world. Rare gems. They keep me grounded when the world around me is shaking.

[Sunshine425]

Didnt read your title at first. Now, Im not sure what exactly your going through but, maybe I could have gave a better answer. I used to be so vulnerable and naive... I made lots and lots of bad choices. All we can do is learn from our mistakes. 🌻

[Darknlovely504 in reply to Sunshine425]

U answered correctly both times

[crowningglory19]

It is hard to know who to trust, but trusting your own instincts about that helps. Don't second guess if it feels wrong and don't try to fix broken people, or it might take you down too. No one can be fixed, only they themselves can fix problems and then it takes a lot of prayer. Trust is earned, so don't open the doors wide till you are fairly sure, keep some guard up till they prove themselves. <3