Needing Support

[AnxietyBucket]

I feel like I’m running out of options and I just don’t know what to do anymore. I have PTSD and severe anxiety and lately I haven’t been able to keep it under control. My husband recently lost his job because the company no longer wanted to accommodate his diabetes, and on top of that, his health started declining more pretty soon after. I have been absolutely worried sick about him. He’s seeing another doctor at the end of the month, but due to my current state, I’m almost at my breaking point. He hasn’t been able to find another job and our finances are draining quickly. Of course, he has been very depressed through this whole ordeal and I feel guilty for not being able to support him like I know I should. I mean I’m doing everything I can, and I’m there for him, but it doesn’t help my mental health is in a bad place as well. My panic has been off the charts lately and I haven’t been able to calm down. I was diagnosed with ADD several years ago due to the fact that I’m never able to shut my brain off and I can’t remain calm. Drugs don’t work for me and I can’t afford therapy anymore. I’m just completely lost and I have no one to turn to because I don’t want to burden my husband, my parents are manipulators, and my friends are nowhere to be found. I just feel like the moment I became even more sick, the less I saw my friends. So i’ve been going it alone and I just can’t do this anymore.

[argh52]

It's illegal to fire someone for having a medical condition. Are you sure that's why? If so, consult a lawyer.

[AnxietyBucket in reply to argh52]

Yeah, they were dumb enough to hand him a written letter on the way out stating his health was the reason. We’re currently in search for a lawyer to take the case.

[Hidden]

Hello TheatreCat. You have such a lot going on that it is no wonder it is all so overwhelming. Just because you cannot work does not mean you are not helping your husband. Just being there for him to talk to and support him is wonderful. I can understand you worrying about his health. He sounds like he is in good hands with regular doctor appointments. Diabetes is something that can be controlled and the person can live a great life with it so please try not to worry too much. It really is bad he lost his job. I hope he can find another one soon. You mention you cannot afford therapy, well you can always post on here and we will support you. You may also find some free support groups that are local to you.

[AnxietyBucket in reply to Hidden]

I appreciate that! It’s nice to have a place to vent, and hopefully soon I can find a good support group in my city. It really helps to talk to people who understand what you’re going through.

[dom410]

Wow, I'm so sorry your having to go through this! I have my anxiety under control about 90% of the time and I would be a total wreck. I say this because I think what your feeling is totally normal. if we didn't have anxiety, we would in dealing with this. I think just the fact that your doing this means your strong as a rock! I know there isn't much I can do for you but I just wanted to say I'm believing in you guys and I know this will all be in the mirror soon. Remember you survived your anxiety at its worst. It cant defeat.

Sending hugs!!

[AnxietyBucket in reply to dom410]

Thank you!! That really means a lot.

[crowningglory19]

Oh wow, I am so sorry you are both going thru so much! Praying for answers and job and better health for you both. btw, in the mean time what really has helped many out with anxiety is taking magnesium. It calms the mind body and spirit. Ginseng is great to get rid of sticky negative thoughts that loop around and stop you from going to sleep. B Complex is great to help with ADD, it increases good energy and focus. For your husband, with his diabetes, going low carb is really good to balance out blood sugar. There's a keto diet that has helped many, or even the LCHF diet is really good! Many have been helped with these, too. Hope they help you both too. <3

[AnxietyBucket in reply to crowningglory19]

Thank you! I’ll definitely look into those.