Weird dream

[Kat63]

Last night I dreamed that my bf, L., and I were married; and that we had a nice home together. But as the dream went on, he started doing things I didn’t like - talking to women in inappropriate ways, being sneaky with money. At one point in the dream, I discovered my car and car keys were missing. L had stolen my car!

I was angry at him in the dream, and my father also appeared in the dream and helped me track down L. and start holding him to account.

The reason why it’s weird: L and I were together for years, then we separated for awhile, and now we’re back together and trying again. But our separation was caused by my bad behavior - not his. I almost feel like this dream is my subconscious trying to punish me, by having L. do bad things to me and run out on me. Thoughts?

[Hidden]

Personally, I don't hold much weight to dreams. They are just live-action movies of our thoughts, feelings, and experiences from the day. Some people feel they have great meaning or that there's some hidden message that needs to be deciphered.

In your case, I think there's nothing to worry about. You guys are working through your relationship in a tangible reality, not a dream

[hypercat54 in reply to Hidden]

Well said and I agree completely. x

[Hidden in reply to hypercat54]

Thank you hypercat! Hope you're feeling better today *hugs*

[hypercat54 in reply to Hidden]

Bit fragile and down to be honest. x

[Hidden in reply to hypercat54]

Oh no...I am sorry to hear such news. Sometimes our wounds take time to heal and we end up feeling the sting for what seems like forever. But today is another day you survived and for right now, that's most important. Let us keep surviving each day

[Hidden]

I agree with Black_Cat_Girl for the most part. I think that our fears, insecurities, other feelings, etc. can influence our dreams but I feel that its somewhat relatable to how our imagination can go into negative thinking during our waking hours over seemingly insignificant things. I wouldn't put any meaning into your dream.

[Nom-D-Ploom]

I often dream reasons to be mad at my husband. I often wake up still mad. They have nothing to do with how the person will act. I think it's just a way to blow off some emotional steam.