Iam A Failure I aint Sh**

[HelpMePlz86]

Apparently im just a huge fu** up and cant do anything right i mean anything.It seems no matter how hard ibtry i always end up feeling bad evn when i make honest mistakes.Today for example.My gf is a smoker( tabacoo) and she dosent have money .She asked me to buy her some BLKS now me i dont smoke those so i figured black and milds is what she ment she was jus abbreviating 😂😂.Anyways i go to the store and spend my last getting her a wine black and mild and some chips for her lunch thinking i did something right...Nooooo Idid it all wrong she immediately jumps down my throat saying i dont listen and all types of stuff then starts crying knowing when we aruge it messess with my anxiety .I tell her im sorry it was an honest mistake and gave her my card so she can get what she needs. That wasnt good enough...im really tired of being the "Bad Guy" like i feel worthless when she does this

[Sillysausage234]

Tell her you’ve had enough of that kind of ungrateful b.s .and to go smoke her own toenails

[rehoudek]

Is it like this all the time? Then I would question the relationship and if it’s worth it...

[HelpMePlz86 in reply to rehoudek]

Happens more often then not

[rehoudek in reply to HelpMePlz86]

I believe it is something to pray about. If you have kids, you need to do what’s best for them too.

[Steadybutlonely]

That's not fair she sounds like she was just being a bitch. That's her problem not yours. I wouldn't put up with that treatment.

[Celtic27]

Hi there you are definately in a toxic environment how long has your home life been like this and how long have you been with your girlfriend? Do you really deserve putting your self through this everyday! Is it possible to sit your gf down and talk through your concerns if she won't entertain this idea maybe it's time for a short break and then she will see how much she depends on you! I wish you well and hope things get better soon david

[HelpMePlz86 in reply to Celtic27]

Thats the thing ive tried to tell her i dont like the way she talks or handles me but as soon as i do she immediately flips and becomes the victim like i xant win....she is never happy and seems to have problem with anything i do if its no her way

[Kayakin]

It seems to me that your actions are perfectly reasonable and you owe no one an apology. All we can do is try. Wonder what is going on with her to act that way. Is there a problem she is not expressing, or a hidden agenda? Sometimes I think people are not able to express their real problem and just react in anger. Sometimes just doing a little something nice can make a difference. If this is just normal, many you should listen to what all the other replies have said and question staying in a situation that makes you feel the way you do.

HelpMePlz86, you are a good and caring person, and deserve happiness and appreciation.

[HelpMePlz86 in reply to Kayakin]

I ask myself what im doing everyday . Am i worthless since i cant evn keep this one person happy.My home life is a little crazy and stressful....but she the only perdon who gets to leave im a stay at home dad at the moment until i do all my dr appointments and get my life in order.But its like im not good enough or appreciatd like im always doing something wrong or not doing enough.she leaves with her friends ar family im stuck with the kids " no problem" but when i attempt to do the same she erupts throws fits start dumb fights

[Kayakin]

But still, in prospective, one person's opinion does not define you or anyone. If it did, I would be sunk. There are individual people that hold bad opinions of me and think I am worthless. If one person's opinion defined me, think I would choose someone else.

Late here, must go.

You are very good and caring and deserve much more and she is wrong is she feels different.

[Hidden]

I had the same exact thing happen to me except I bought the wood tip black and milds and on the second go I got cloves (Blacks) because the cashier was as oblivious as I was. Still don't know what I was suppose to get.

That girl liked to yell at me way to much so we ended up breaking up. Be careful, toxic relationships scarily pop up and develop sometimes without you noticing them.

I'd try talking to her and standing up for yourself if she starts to put you down. No one deserves it and sometimes good people do bad stuff because they are in a bad spot (my wife has anger issues).

[Hidden]

dump her!

[arkies]

You are not worthless at all! Sounds as though she has some real issues herself. Spend some time in prayer & thought over this relationship. If u have kids, hold them tight & love them well. There needs to be peace in your home. Sounds quite toxic, by her not you. You’ve got this. We’re here for you!

[HelpMePlz86]

Thank youvall for your advice i truley love all of you...for reaching out whn you didnt have to

[CLB1125]

Tell me about it! I haven’t done anything right in years!! It took my husband’s retiring to find out I don’t know how to cook! After 40 years! There’s no pleasing some people no matter how hard you try. Don’t let it upset you.