Why am I so unlovable

[Laguera911ok]

It is real does everyone have someone that is their soulmate? I am so tired of being hurt.decieved.used.abused.and being the fool over and over I give up I'm confused and schattered I give my all and in return become the topic of the laughter

Hopeless

[Kat63]

I know it hurts to be alone, and you feel even worse if it seems like everyone else around you has someone. I’ve been where you are. Let me just tell you that things *can* change.

[brokenlight]

I don’t think anyone is truly unlovable.

There is something to love about us all.

But I get it. My insecurities scream the same types of self hatred to me all the time.

Self worth issues is the core wound for a lot of people. You aren’t alone.

I’m sorry for the pain & suffering you have experienced.

In my opinion, most people have multiple soulmates throughout life... making an earth shattering experience that breaks us open so we can grow & grow. And growing hurts.

I can relate to being hurt, used, abused, and being the fool on repeat. It may take a life time to heal from that destructive pattern but it’s possible I think.

Try to stay focused on you & be gentle with yourself.

Maybe even start a mantra?

“Good things are coming” is mine today 🙂

Best of luck to you ✨

[Agora1 in reply to brokenlight]

brokenlight, I like your mantra for today. "Good things are coming"

For years, mine has been from the movie "Miracle on 34th Street",

"I Believe" ... a little girl who didn't believe in Santa but by saying this

mantra everyday, her every wish came true. Yes it was only a movie but

I have seen what the power of our belief in something can bring us.

Thanks for sharing brokenlight. You may have opened a door to what

others on this forum think or say to get them through. xx

[brokenlight in reply to Agora1]

Thank you Agora1 🙂💛✨