My sad life.... I need help

[inibrain23]

My name is Joseph Bassey, I lost my job last year April and I had to move to my elder sister house with her two kids because I can’t afford to pay for my own place anymore... since I lost my job and moved in with my sister life as been so frustrating. I had to go and work for a low paying security company and I wake up everyday hating my job, my life and I hate my supervisor who is a control freak making do all the work while he sits and collect the bigger salary . And when I get home my elder sister turns me to her maid... I definitely love my nephew and niece. But the way I am been treated his bad.. joke don’t sound funny, hanging out with my friends is so boring, talking to my girlfriend makes me sick... I just live the same boring life over and over....i am starved of what the future holds for me. I don’t even know if I have a future anymore....I need help

[Hidden]

What does a great future look like to you?

[inibrain23 in reply to Hidden]

More of freedom to me... I am sacred of what it might have for might not be what I want 😔

[Hidden in reply to inibrain23]

I invite you to pull out a paper and pen and write down what exactly it is you want to achieve. Dream big, find out what it takes to move in that direction, and with patience you will get there. Spend 1 hour everyday for yourself. I call this Legacy Hour. Manage your plan, finances, education, etc.

I have 20 minute video link on my profile page called 15 SIMPLE Steps to Change Your Life... Take a look. It will help you. The only obstacle in your way is you. That is the same for all of us. Take action and your problems will melt away.

Then, don't get overwhelmed when the new problems come (they will come). There will always be problems, but they are much (much much) easier to handle when your stable in your own environment. This is why it's important to know where you are going, because when times get hard you won't give up, because you know your on the right pathway. 97% of people give up. Just don't give up on your vision and you will win. This is what separates the successful from everyone else. It's not about money, that just comes with success. It really is just a plan and some daily action towards that plan. By doing this, you separate yourself from 97% of the world. Become a part of the 3%. Also, remember that we all have the same 24 hours a day. You have every right to succeed, you just have to reach out and take it. Rid yourself of habits that hold you back. You know the ones. Replace your biggest one with a Legacy Hour and you will find yourself in the Fast Lane. I promise you. Rooting for you 🚀

”Success is the progressive realization of a worthy goal. - Earl Nightingale

[inibrain23 in reply to Hidden]

Wow thanks alot... I would put that in action

[RAB888]

Hi

When you are thinking constantly about all the problems you have it can become overwhelming and you will struggle to find the answers you need.

When you are able to relax and clear your mind and just focus on one thing at a time, other things begin to work themselves out.

Your future will improve when you work on things one step at a time.

I can see what the main problem is and it's very simple.

[inibrain23 in reply to RAB888]

Thanks will try that

[Sunnidayz1]

It's very easy for anyone to think about what they dont have instead what they do have. Write down what u r grateful for. It'll put your mind on a different path.

I can start it out for you...

Im grateful for my nephew and niece. Now go from there...

If we continue to look at the bad, more bad will come, if we focus on the good, change comes for the good.

Change with good results is possible.

Stay positive.

XxSunni

[inibrain23]

Thanks a lot

[SirGrits]

Hey inibrain hang in there. I think you've already received some great advice. My only addition is that you are patient, with applying the changes. There aren't any magic pills. We have to make the changes into habits. Like gardening, consistent watering, feeding, weeding and you may not see the differences from one day to the next but eventually you open the door and holy crap, a garden.

Prayers.