Going back home

[Kat63]

Today I’m in the airport, waiting for my flight back home. I went to visit my father for a few days.

Am I anxious? Of course I am! I’ve been away from my bf for three days. I’m scared that while I was gone, he liked having me gone, and will not really be glad to see me.

[Sober2007]

Hi Kat - glad you got to see your father and have a safe trip home.

[heywntsumhelpthere]

He Will! u got this dude!. <3

[hb_kenzie]

I’m sure he missed you! Is he not usually glad to see you after a while?

[Hidden]

You’re letting your insecurities get the best of you. He missed you. People leave when they’re unhappy. Come home to him with some stories and a smile and you’ll forget the rest.

I will say that in times in my life where I felt scared of similar things, it was because I wasn’t doing enough for myself. All cuz of anxiety. I would be kind of down, not loving myself how I needed to, and not doing what I loved. Always expecting my boyfriends to fill in the gaps I should have been filling myself. I think to help you get over your fears of him not missing you, and to help you get a better sense of identity (strength! courage! love! feeling attractive! Feeling loved!) you should def do something you love! Focus on you! Do a mosaic. I’m just speaking from my own experience so totally dismiss my comment if it’s not relevant.

You got this. You’re a kind person and anyone would be lucky to date you!

[asanders1203]

I struggle with the same type of feelings . But I have come to realize that what I was feeling was because I don’t feel “good enough” so now I’m doing things for myself so I can feel better about myself and not project negative emotions onto my relationship .

[Hidden]

That three days has passed by so quickly...

Glad you got to spend time with your father.

Safe trip back ! 🌺🌹🌺🌹 xx