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Been going through a pretty hard time. Just need some kind and loving thoughts. I know this will pass.

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JAYnLA

Everything passes. Everything changes, even things that seem permanent. Even the mountains change - so will your difficult mindset. I promise.

Hey there,

Well, I'll go with some of my own thoughts when things get rough....what goes up must come down. So all these difficult times, while they're on the "up", they will pass and things will get better. You know it as you said as much. I'm sorry you're going through them right now; difficult times, even with the outlook of better times, just plain suck. Try to remain positive and be kind to yourself while you're dealing with these times. I don't want to sound like a terrible book of "copy and paste" optimism (WHEN LIFE GIVES YOU LEMON, MAKE LEMONADE!!...joking), but I think if you focus on the positive things around you (like the support here) and don't give the negativity any room to move in and place its terrible fern near the sliding glass door, you'll begin to go ahead and move on towards the better times. Try some music that gets your soul moving from the inside...I know that works for me. Maybe go get a huge ice cream and eat the whole friggin' thing. Whatever says...."I'm not going to let the rough times make today a bad day."

I always hate to hear someone in the dumps, down low, rock bottom, and so on. It's a terrible place to be and I'm sorry you're in some form of that. That said, I like your attitude that you know this will pass, because it will. You're absolutely worth the good, positive, kind, and loving things ahead...and don't forget that. Let the dust settle and emerge unscathed :) I do hope you feel better and I am really sorry to hear you feel so down right now, but you'll get there and we're always on here if you need another shot of pep, a laugh, or whatever you might need! Take care, be kind to yourself, and feel better :)

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hypercat54

Kind, loving thoughts on their way with a bonus of hugs too xxx

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mz_rachel

We are here for your my friend. The storm never lasts.. Good always prevails. ❤️

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KatarinaWajda

that's awesome that you know that it will pass! That's one of the hardest parts.

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