New here! Honestly, need some friends to help me cope

[jazzpw]

Hey guys, this is my first post here so don't wanna hit you with all my problems straight away! Since I moved school for sixth form last year I haven't really made any new friends as all the social groups were already formed. I consider myself to be a decent person, but people just don't bother looking past my appearance and shyness. I really think that if I had a couple stable friendships it would be a lot easier for me to cope with my mental health and I currently bottle things up as I don't have anyone to talk to. I was wondering if anyone wanted to be friends? Like proper friends. We could chat for a bit and see if we're similar? I know how desperate I sound, but honestly I kind of am

[NedBraden]

That happened to me after starting college. You may be surprised by speaking with your school counselor. This is probably quite common, and other students will feel the same way. You all need to hook up....

[jazzpw in reply to NedBraden]

Ive spoken to the school nurse, and it is really common apparently, but I just can't find the right people. I really tried to put myself out there last year but it didn't work

[mirandakj]

Hey jazzpw! I can relate to what you are currently experiencing! I have struggled with social anxiety, which often made it diffcult for me to forge meaningful relationships with others. (And that certainly can exacerbate the feelings of loneliness/hopelessness/discomfort/etc. that accompany mental health struggles.) I would love to get to know you further--and you don't sound desperate!! I understand how you feel and have absolutely been there--I think it is phenomenally brave of you to recognize what you need/want, and to put yourself out there in this way!

[NedBraden in reply to mirandakj]

And the truth is, socially shy individuals seem to form the longest-lasting bonds. And may be better partners

[Justjess28]

I’ll be your friend just message me whenever you need to vent.

[jazzpw in reply to Justjess28]

Thank you!