Please I need a real friend

[cherrydan]

Hi.Two weeks ago,My mom disowned me and she tried to kill me.My s ibilings hate me and I am surrounded by fake friends.I feel alone and I think everyone hates me.

[kenster1]

hi that is terrible what your mum did and not nice siblings going against you. ive had a few fake friends over the years as well.you can come on here its nice to chat when ever you want.take care.

[hlangdon]

I know the feeling. everytime I would speak up in my family they would just attack me. Felt like a burden to all of them So I backed away from them all. My half brother hates me for many years now. I have not spoken to anyone on my mom's side of the family since July and now my stepfather is evicting me from the house he owns that I'm living in and will be selling the house.

[Waiting4themoon]

Hi cherrydan, wow that is a lot to handle. Goodness. I am really sorry to read this. I can understand that you would feel alone after what you have experienced. Coming here to speak and share and to read about what other people have and are going through eases the loneliness a bit.

I want you to know that whatever anyone does to you they cannot take away the basic truth that you are a special, unique and beautiful human being. Sure, you might do, think, say and feel things that make you imagine that you aren’t lovely but that isn’t the real you. The real you is the courageous and kind you. The you that deep down you know you are. Try and pay as little attention as possible to the words and actions of others as well as to the judgemental thoughts in your own head.

You are strong. You are wise. You are worthy of only all the very best, always.

Take it small steps at a time and believe in your own power of love.

Wishing you only all the very best,

[Bethaimes]

I'm sorry you going through this.im here to listen I'm also suffering from anxiety and depression no one under stands it seems like

[Bethaimes]

My family talks about me including my children because I speak up and try and help everyone but I end up the bad guy everytime.i don't knowcehst to do

[Syllabus18]

Cherry Dan I must commend you for having the courage to come forward and letting everyone know what's on your mind I understand that this might be hard for you but we are all here to help

[Eowyn7]

I hope you are safe now. Please take whatever steps you need to protect yourself.

I am sorry all of these things are happening to you. There are lots of people here who are willing to talk with you.

I will be sending you good thoughts.

[HisChild4ever]

Dear Cherrydan, I am really sorry! I wish you many blessings and I also want to say that you are not alone. Seek true friends. Be a true friend. Don't give up! I will pray for you. Take good care of yourself! You are an important human being! You are 100% valuable!

[Hidden]

Hello--I am sorry your mother treated you like that. Your siblings are toxic too and as for your "friends", they are not even close to the word. I went through something similar as a child, as a teen, as a young adult, and on and still am after retiring. I realize I made choices along the way that caused me trouble, but I honestly do not know why I was treated badly in other aspects and situations. I know you are a good person who deserves the best. The fault is with the others. Push these people out of your life. Very difficult to do, and with me the loneliness sometimes makes me go back and try to be the "good guy" again. You will need strength because the treatment you had tears down your self-esteem and courage but I am sending you encouraging thoughts and wishes.