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[aubreevlasek]

i’m feeling at a loss right now. i had a fight with my friends and she basically told me i was a terrible friend and didn’t want to be around me anymore. her reasons behind it didn’t make sense at all and long story short, it sent me into a panic attack. any advice on how to ratify the situation?

[mvillarreal]

What was the fight over, if you don’t mind me asking?

[aubreevlasek in reply to mvillarreal]

essentially i asked her why she was being distant and she just kind of went off and told me i was a bad friend. i tried my best to apologize for everything she thought i was doing “wrong” but she still won’t talk to me.

[mvillarreal in reply to aubreevlasek]

I'm sorry to hear that. It's hard when someone is being cold and won't even explain why. Of course, I don't know everything about the situation, but some time and space for a while might help. Maybe when some of the tension clears out a little bit, it might be good to just go to her privately and ask to have a conversation about why she is upset. I know it might be hard to disclose, but it also might be good to let her know that you have been struggling with anxiety because of this so that she understands how her words might have affected you. That's very hard, but keep powering through! We're here to support you!

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Hi there just read your message on here how is it going now have you managed to talk to your friend and find out what happened are you ok, let us know

[baileyf14]

I am so sorry you are going through this. Relationships can be very difficult sometimes. The best thing you can do is be open and honest with your friend and tell her how you feel about this situation. I hope everything gets better.

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I am sure you are not a terrible friend.....maybe reach out to her once again and say you're sorry...if she doesn't accept it...maybe it's not meant to be...I'll be your friend! May you have a beautiful day. Dump trucks of love, peace, light, joy & hugs!