Random break downs

[Livesmatter]

I just feel worthless at time and I feel like I’m not good enough I bearly wanna get up out of bed anymore

[Iloveart7]

I'm srr you are having a rough time! (((Hugs)))

[Livesmatter in reply to Iloveart7]

It’s so hard (((hugs)))

[Hidden]

what's going on?

[Livesmatter in reply to Hidden]

I’m pushing the guy I love away

[Hidden in reply to Livesmatter]

how..

[Livesmatter in reply to Hidden]

He say I need to fix myself because it’s causing problem in are relationships

[Hidden in reply to Livesmatter]

whats there to fix?

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

?

[Livesmatter in reply to Hidden]

My depression I just don’t wanna do Anything I have really bad trust issues because of past experiences and it’s just all hard to live with

[Hidden in reply to Livesmatter]

Change...you should see yourself through your partner.. you mentioned trust issues, thats one, are you doing anything about it?..work on yourself..what else is there?..

[Livesmatter in reply to Hidden]

I’m trying I just don’t know how to trust like everyone let me down

[Hidden in reply to Livesmatter]

Everyone let you down, you mean partners?..well you haven't found the right one..If you don't get the reassurance from the other then that's a sign for you...there's nothing wrong with you, it's them..is it your instinct speaking?..you got to compromise..that's what it's all about..if you can't, then why force something to happen..what else is going on..

[Livesmatter in reply to Hidden]

I needed to hear that maybe that’s all I needed to hear I’ve always been told it me and I’m the issue

[Livesmatter in reply to Livesmatter]

And no my own family had let me down

[Chocolover in reply to Livesmatter]

If he's not willing to stick around he ain't worth changing for. Why should he get to stick around if he's only going to be there in the good parts. Relationships are about growth. He needs to be there every step of the way hun. Is he really worth it if he's only going to stick around when you are better?

[Livesmatter in reply to Chocolover]

He hasn’t left he just say I need to get better but idk how to I’m just so depressed

[Hidden in reply to Livesmatter]

Heh Lives matter - I know where you are coming from - you are frightened of a broken heart. Those past memories are getting between your new friendship. He knows you want to change . Just take it slowly, and try to have a laugh - sure you have a sense of humour. I know a lot of people have let you down in the past - and they are saying it's your fault - don't be phased by them - just don't analyse everything to much and get to know your new friend . You sound a great person to me .