I've just turned 30, and my partner suffers from PTSD, anxiety and depression. We've been together for 3yrs, and have just gotten married. My partner experiences suicidal thoughts even today. I'm having trouble working with her to manage our finances. Last night she told me I was being controlling which is horrifying! We both love each other deeply, and want the best outcome . We have great communication, but last night was different. I felt like I had to go against better judgement so she could feel better, which only makes the problem worse. Has anyone out there experienced something similar and have tips?