My mom

[tamka38]

I just had to call 911 because my mother had a Seizure and stop breathing am panicking and so anxious right now please keep her in y’all prayers thank u

[Indigojoe]

Prayers sent up

[tamka38 in reply to Indigojoe]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[Hidden]

Oh bless you...

Special wishes and prayers for you and your mum I do hope she’s ok xx

[tamka38 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you 🙌🏾

[Hidden in reply to tamka38]

Xx thoughts are with you both..xx

[tamka38 in reply to Hidden]

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[Sillysausage234]

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[Anxiousdude]

I’m praying for you and your mom

[tamka38 in reply to Anxiousdude]

Thank you

[Agora1]

tamka, I'm so sorry. You did the right thing, your mom is in good hands.

My prayers are with her. I know it's a frightening thing to see. Please take

some deep breaths and exhale slowly, it will help settle you down some.

We are here for you xx

[tamka38 in reply to Agora1]

Yeah it was scary she stop breathing on us and all I could do is scream for my brother and kids help and call 911

[Agora1 in reply to tamka38]

That's a difficult think to witness. She is in good hands now.

[tamka38 in reply to Agora1]

Right am still stressed and panicking and anxious and my head hurts and my mind racing and I don’t know what to do because am going through a lot with depression and anxiety right now and my son found out he had Crohn’s disease before his 18 birthday and he always in pain and down to 84 lbs I need a lot of prayers

[Agora1 in reply to tamka38]

I hear you tamka. You've got a lot on your plate right now. It's difficult seeing your

children suffering with any illness. I understand since my daughter is Anorexic.

Keeping you in my thoughts and in my heart. Sometimes being a mother is so hard.

[tamka38 in reply to Agora1]

Oh am sorry to hear that praying for u and your daughter u right my head hurts

[Agora1 in reply to tamka38]

Thank you tamka...we both know the heartbreak for our children.

You need to find a quiet space for yourself for a little while.

Maybe a comfortable couch or chair, dim the lights, sip on something warm

to drink, cover your legs with a light blanket and just sit back and breathe.

It will help release some of the tightness in your head causing your pain.

Breathe and release all that stress and fear. xx

[tamka38 in reply to Agora1]

U right I definitely need to breathe and relax

[Agora1 in reply to tamka38]

Just take it easy for a while. You need that time

to call your own. xx

[tamka38 in reply to Agora1]

Yeah but now I have a lot on my plate when am still trying to get stable

[Agora1 in reply to tamka38]

Life has a habit of doing that to us.

That's why we need to grab hold of the good moments

we might have no matter how brief. We never know what

may be challenging us next.

But remember tamka, we are warriors. Together we go

forward. Never staying stuck, never giving up.

How's your mom right now??

[tamka38 in reply to Agora1]

She’s up taking and wanting some chicken I feel stupid and a like a worthless daughter right now after witnesses that and haven’t left my house in weeks I couldn’t go to the hospital I sent my adult sons and my brother and other family members when my son was in the hospital I had to get drunk just to go to the hospital and I wanted to drink tonight but am on medication and am still trying to get stable

[Agora1 in reply to tamka38]

Oh I understand those times when I couldn't get out of the house myself.

I'm glad you held off on drinking tonite. That would have made things

worse the next day. I hope you continue working on getting yourself stable.

You are important. xx

Well, I'm off to watch Lifetime Movie. That's my R&R at night. Just finished

having a nice dinner that I had delivered. Hope you find some "me time"

for yourself. Start winding down for the evening.

Wishing your mom well. xx

[tamka38 in reply to Agora1]

Awwwww thank you you I really appreciate it thanks for letting me vent and tomorrow u can share the times u couldn’t leave the house with me if u like am not getting no sleep Tonight and I love lifetime

[Hidden in reply to tamka38]

Your bound to feel anxious and all the things you say it’s all just happened...you will calm a little, you know mum is in safe hands ....don’t forget to breathe and take deep breaths, we tend to take short breaths when we get anxious and that makes it all worse...

Sending lots of peaceful vibes your way too...xxxxxx

[tamka38 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you

[Hidden in reply to tamka38]

Your welcome...no wonder you have felt anxious you have a lot going on....believe me though, that breathing deep breaths in helps ....not sure if you so breathing exercises but they are good they do help....

Lots of us thinking about you , your mum and your family for,sure

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[tamka38 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you I appreciate it

[Hidden in reply to tamka38]

Your most welcome...

Xxx

[tamka38]

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[tamka38]

So they ran tests and said she had a stroke before

[Misfit23]

🙏🏼

[tamka38 in reply to Misfit23]

Thank you

[Michael8072]

I hope your mom is okay. Prayers sent to you and her.

[tamka38 in reply to Michael8072]

Thank you

[aaronm]

OMG TAMKA! I just got home from work and read this. You poor thing! You have been through the ringer. Since your asking for prayers I guess that means you believe in God. Shall I suggest Satan is trying to recruit you? Keep fighting. I know its hard. You can do it.

[tamka38 in reply to aaronm]

It feel like something is going wrong because I been praying for healing and to be able to take care of my family and my mom in the hospital and my son is down to 84 lbs and always in pain and am trying to get stable I just want to be normal and take care of my family

[Indigojoe in reply to tamka38]

HI, just a note to say that there is a doctor in Columbus Ohio who's name is Dr. Salt. He is a specialist on Crohn's has written a book and has outstanding results treating this disease. You can look him up. Read what he has to say for your son.

Please do not judge yourself during this passage in your life.

show yourself some love and compassion during these days.

Keep us posted

[tamka38 in reply to Indigojoe]

Awwww thank you so much am just still panicking

[Indigojoe in reply to tamka38]

I also get the protracted anxiety symptoms when I get triggered.

This IS in our control, somewhat.

WE MUST change (y) our thoughts about, both the feelings that you get that WE HATE, and the way you talk to yourself about the situation.

IF you KNEW that what you were feeling, MEANT that you would win a lottery, feel fine and your son would instantly be healed, would you be able to totally COME DOWN from your "hysterical" state?

[aaronm in reply to tamka38]

I have lots and lots of empathy for you! I'd give you a hug if you were near. I'd hold you. I don't know what to say but please don't give up. I know its hard. Please stay on track. Ill help you step by step. Please stay with me! You'll see the light eventually but only god knows when. You can do it.

[tamka38 in reply to aaronm]

Awwwwww thank u so much I really appreciate it that’s means a lot to me

[tamka38]

I just tried to look him up didn’t have any luck

[Indigojoe in reply to tamka38]

williamsaltmd.com/

[Wannachange01]

Get well soon and pray for your family

[tamka38 in reply to Wannachange01]

Thank you

[Hidden]

Hope things improve with your mum quickly.

She is now getting medical attention so so hope she will soon improve

Thinking of you ..I hope you can have rest too, it’s possibly difficult for you to sleep but if possible get some rest.it helps us if we have some sleep..

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