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[kimmy30]

I want to be happy but i feel like i cant or dont know how

i want to be open and make friends but im afraid of rejection

i want to go to the gym but I may fall and hurt myself

omg what am I going to do with myself

[margyy17]

Hey kimmy, I know how you feel because many times I felt like that. What I think is that in life is always better to throw your self to new experiences and try to make a change, try to be better. You won’t always succede but at least you can say I tried. And I’m sure that if you try hard enough you will make it. You are scared because it’s always hard to start something new, to make a change and it’s okay that you are because everyone is scared from something we don’t how it will go. Stay positive and try to do better, start with a little change maybe go to the gym to check it out, than go home, the next day go back and try to exercise a little, and than the day after always more. Same with all the other things you want to do! Stay positive!

[kimmy30 in reply to margyy17]

THANKS HOW R U

[Sad18]

Hey! I understand.I too was afraid of being rejected when it came making friends but recently I became friends with these amazing girls.they just accepted me .I don't even know how it happened. We used to see each other but never really talked.one day we paired up in chemistry class and really enjoined their company and from that day we r together. What I want to say is that sometimes its good to go with the flow.I know its not that easy but we should at least give it a try.

[kimmy30 in reply to Sad18]

great advice I will try thanks

[thedoulamom]

Making friends is always hard, especially when you are afraid of being rejected. As a military spouse, I have to deal with this constantly. Either I or my friends are leaving and I have to find a new tribe. Getting involved in even one get to together, like a yoga class, Mommy and Me group, or a Bible study can really make all the difference. As I read your post, I get the feeling that you may be struggling with self-esteem? It's a hard thing to understand your real value and worth when you feel not that great. But, let me remind you that inherent value is determined by the inventor/creator, it has nothing to do with how we feel. Rejection always hurts. But, when you finally find acceptance you may find that the risk was worth it.