What A Day

[OHAllie]

Long exhausting day today. Spent some time at the hospital. Really struggling. In the beginning stages of a divorce. I have been with him for 8yrs and I don't know how to live without my best friend.

[zevietnameseguy98]

I am so sorry to hear that. That's honestly terrifying to even think about. So sorry that you are going through this. You just have to stay strong. Go out, meet your friends, find a new hobby and all the typical post break up options. It sounds cliche but it works to help you move on. Your life isn't over and a new chapter will begin. Best of luck to you on your journey. You aren't alone and don't let your feeling boils up inside, let it out whether you post about it here or to a friend. Stay strong, stay tough and stay safe, my friend xoxo.

[Crackerjack4u]

I'm so sorry that you're going through that. Divorce is not easy for sure. Having been there myself, I understand. All you can do is take one day, or 1 hour, or 1 minute at a time, and then one day in the not so far off future you will realize that life does go on. We are here if you need someone to talk to, or a shoulder to cry on. I did plenty of both through mine. Again I am so sorry that you are going through this, and we're here if you need a friend. Good Luck Hun!!

[Hidden]

Hello!

I can empathize with you...I’ve been there too. You will find a way to cope without your spouse. Lots of crying took place for me, but it does get better. You’re going to grow! As has been suggested, take baby steps on your journey through this difficult time. You will get to the other side! I feel for you and am sorry that you’re struggling...continue to share here in this safe haven where people understand and support you. I’m wishing you peace! 😊

[pampam3]

Hang in there! I've been there as well....we were married 32 years.....but I'm putting the pieces back together, one at a time. Thing is, I'm doing ok. Lots of tears, lots of fears, lots of doubt, etc....I've had them all, but I AM DOING OK. Don't let him be in charge of your happiness anymore, rise above it and show him you are capable of standing alone. It is kind of sad I know, but there are times I so want to make sure he knows that I'm good without him. I can't say I don't love him, but I can say I can make it without him and actually doing better without him than I was for the last few years with him. I'm sorry this is happening to you but know that better days can be found.