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I am not sure if i have made a mistake today: i said to the agent that i don't want to go for interview ...because it is very inconvenient commute. I checked the location and it is not good area and it is almost 2 hours commute using public transportation.

It was temp position. Well, it is done. I am trying to tell myself that i will find something in better location, not where i live, but better area and less time to commute, may be not more that 1 hour and 15 mins.

I guess i am not desperate enough yet. Just venting here. thank you for letting me share.

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I wouldn't beat yourself up too much about that. I don't know about you... but that would be a little far out for me to drive. Only you know what's best for you & I hope you find something more concrete soon. <3 I'm here for always.

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thank you, dear. Off: i am reading your post now. Everything will be fine, please keep fighting, it will get easier. and it goes like that: few days are ok, few days are not. Don't expect only good days, it is not possible after what you went thru. Love.

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You're so welcome! You are always so kind to me, I just knew I needed to reply to your post! I am here for you anytime you need someone to chat to! <3 Thank you for saying that to me, I am going through a lot, but all of my friends, you included, help me fight another day! <3

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2 hours commute is crazy I think you did the right thing I think anywhere with in a hour journey wise is reasonable x

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yes, that is what i thought. My 3 months previous project was 1.5 hours, and i think this is max i can handle.

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Yes I get what you mean. Mind you when I lived in London it was about 50 minutes there and the same back so well over 1 and a half hours a day. I was young then of course. It was on public transport.

I hope you find somewhere more convenient. x

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Thank you, I am trying.

No point working somewhere you dislike or you could come to be miserable travelling there everyday.doesn't sound like wrong thing to me.

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