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Lonely on a Holiday

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Today is July 4th, Independence Day. A lot of celebrations going on out there. My social anxiety is keeping me at bay, so I’m at home. Feeling lonely especially on a holiday hurts.

For others that read this, I’d sure appreciate a warm hello.

Thanks to all for your empathy,

MZ

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_amabelizzario

Hello there. I'm here if you need to talk.

I am used to being alone. It doesn’t bother me anymore.

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Xene

Hi MrZee, nice to meet you. I read your post about having to attend an academic function! I would have been bored stiff to put it politely. I'm not an academic but I find having common sense and being practical gets me a long way. I may not be rich but I get along just fine. Best wishes Xene

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MrZee in reply to Xene

Thank you Xene. How kind of you to say. I’m not monetarily rich either. Yet my goal is to be rich with a circle of friends that can empathize with my condition and I can empathize with theirs. I’m hoping to get beyond my social anxiety so I can find others for human interaction.

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Xene in reply to MrZee

You're welcome, I certainly wish you luck in reaching your goal. There are many that struggle out there and for some it doesn't get any easier as we get older. Luckily I am quite happy with my own company, I think it's in my genes lol but we are all different.

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Kainan

Hello. I’d say it’s better to be home under the ac away from the oppressive heat and crowds of people. Not worth being outside and getting baked

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Lindabellle

Hi MZ,

Completely get where you are coming from... I hope you have a relaxing evening.

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MrZee in reply to Lindabellle

Thanks Lindabelle... I’m just here, relaxing and chatting on this app. I’m appreciative there’s others out there that can empathize. Much appreciation.

MZ

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Lindabellle

I went out for awhile today and had to dodge fireworks being tossed left and right in the park. I was never so happy to get back home--and I still have all 10 toes!

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MrZee in reply to Lindabellle

I understand. I live on the west coast. Once it’s dark, boom boom will start. Glad you have all your toes.

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morenews

Hello, i am here, you are not alone. my husband is downstairs, i am kind of alone here, but i am glad i have this site, and i feel warmth and energy from other people here.

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MrZee in reply to morenews

Thank you morenews. That is most kind. Yes, people are kind here. Thank you for your empathy. Same thing here, my hubby is in another room doing his own thing. And I’m just plain bored and dealing with my anxiety. But it’s nice to know there are people here to express empathy and companionship.

I hope your day has been treating you well.

Best,

MZ

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SantoRyu

I stayed home as well. With how severe my anxiety and depression is at this time...I mainly stay home. You aren't alone.

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MrZee in reply to SantoRyu

Thanks SantoRyu.

I wish those of us here lived closer so we could get together and just be supportive, share our stories, and express empathy. But that there’s people like you that can empathize even if it’s a distance on the Internet, I certainly feel less alone.

Thanks for your kindness,

MZ

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SantoRyu in reply to MrZee

I thank you for your kindness as well. I'm sure it would be better if we could all meet but I indeed do feel less lonely knowing I can reach out to you all on here :)

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MrZee in reply to SantoRyu

Yes me too. It is comforting there are others that share the same social challenges which makes me for sure feel like I’m not the only one.

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gogogirl in reply to MrZee

Welcome Mr Zee!

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