Feeling lonely and abused

[MissL27]

Have no friends or family to talk to and the only person that thought I was the love of his life and able to talk to mentally abused me

[Dabela]

I’m so sorry you are in pain. I read your last post and I too have been thrown away. It hurts like hell. It messes with everything inside of you and all you can ask yourself is why me? What’s wrong with me? Why is it that I put so much into this relationship and they don’t reciprocate? But yet require I be there for them when they aren’t they for me. I wish we didn’t know what this feeling was. I wish people were different. And I’m so sorry you feeling so alone. If you’d like to talk please know I’m here and I understand.

[MissL27 in reply to Dabela]

Yes it hurts like hell and he tries to come into my life whenever he wants. When it’s convenient for him and I always take him back because I feel bad, or miss him. But everything he says it’s just a complete lie. I have been mentally abused for 2 years to the point that no one want to hear it anymore. I have no one left. My own family doesn’t want to hear about my depression and how suicidal I have been feeling. I wish people were different too and are able to understand our pain.

[Dabela in reply to MissL27]

I’ve had the same thing happen to me. It’s all about them and what’s convenient for them. And relationships don’t work that way. Not healthy ones. And I know it’s hard and I don’t say this like it’s easy in the least but sometimes letting go of something we want is what we need. And again I know it’s not easy. It’s awful and painful but you don’t deserve to be treated that way. You deserve to be treated with respect and compassion. And if the people in your life aren’t willing to give that to you then they don’t deserve to be in your life. That’s what I’ve had to do and it’s hard as hell I’m not going to lie. But we deserve better then we are getting.

[Marshall64 in reply to Dabela]

Well said...

[Hidden]

I would kick the guy to the curb. You don’t need that aggravation in your life.

[MissL27 in reply to Hidden]

It’s been hard than it seems.

[Hidden in reply to MissL27]

Yeah I don’t know all the facts. Things are easier said than done.

[MissL27 in reply to Hidden]

I agree, Things are easier said than done. With time I will be better and happy again. Right now he’s not in my life but he’s always in and out and I always let him in. That’s completely my fault.

[Hidden in reply to MissL27]

Well you can’t change the past. We can only look back and learn from our mistakes and affect change in the present. The past isn’t your fault anymore. It’s what you do in the present now with the knowledge you gained from the past that counts.

[MissL27 in reply to Hidden]

I agree thank you makes a lot of sense