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Terrable awful news

gerrerd
gerrerd

I have just had some awful news, my nieces daughter Sophie was hit by a 4x4 at a motor event the driver was showing off and lost control plowing into a group of people. Sophie sufferd brain damage and Died. Her mother my niece Susan is devastated and in a right mess how do you come to terms with loosing a 20 year old daughter ??? I had recently started to message Sophie on social media trying to help her in life, even tho she was ok and had no problems, i thought i could help her stear away from trouble etc. Now all that has been blown out of the water. 20 years old all her life in front of her a very beautiful and caring soul. One moment of madness from a fool has took everything away. I hope you will pray for Susan her mother to come threw this, The person who did this doesnt know it yet but he has just made a mess of his own life he will have to live with it for the rest of his life, So my message to young people is you still have a life infront of you make the most of it work on how to improve. Because Sophie cant now. Cherish your life you never know when it will be gone. Wont be posting today busy trying to help susan. And make sense of it all ???????????????????????????????

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I’m so sorry to hear this awful sad news Gerrerd. Just absolutely tragic!

Bless you all at this time. So sorry for your loss 🌹🌹🌹 xx

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gerrerd in reply to Hidden

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Oh Gerrerd..I am soooo damn sorry! I will definitely pray for Susan, and especially for Sophie! You are always so helpful with the rest of us. Make sure you lean on us as hard as you need to.

May your loss keep you close together as you joutba

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gerrerd in reply to Imakook

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Sorry, I messed up my post. I just wanted to let you know that my heart is with you and breaks for your niece. If you grieve together you will lighten the load for each other. Peace to you and yours, my friend.

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gerrerd in reply to Imakook

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awe buddy....I have no words for what you must be going through....I'm very very close to my sisters girls....it would kill me....I am so very sorry for you and yours loss. It's a terrible tragedy...and your incredibly gracious to extend a gift to all the younger ones here to cherish their life....as hard as it is sometimes with our disease...when something like this happens, it's a wake up call. Sending healing and caring thoughts to you and your loved ones.

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gerrerd in reply to fauxartist

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Omg I am so sorry Gerrerd. What a waste of a beautiful young life and her mother must be absolutely devastated. The idiot should be jailed for life. It won't bring her back but justice must be done. How awful. You and the family are in my thoughts. xx

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gerrerd in reply to hypercat54

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You are all in my prayers. I'm so sorry for your loss

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gerrerd in reply to Espinoza38

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Oh my how sad. I'm so so very sorry for your loss. May God wrap His loving arms around you all & give you comfort! Love & Prayers. XXX

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gerrerd in reply to Hidden

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I have no other words,,,my heart aches for you & your family. Hugs!!! XXX

I am so so sorry. Prayers and love 💕

gerrerd
gerrerd in reply to Starrlight

Thank you

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Starrlight in reply to gerrerd

Hope you are doing okay

gerrerd
gerrerd in reply to Starrlight

Ajusting making sense of it all, trying to keep susans mind on being strong and understanding whats going on, but a mother loosing a child is probly the hardest thing to go threw, Its hard to get your head round. Will take a long time to come to terms with it for her, she will never get over it you can only try to live with it. It will be in her mind every day for the rest of her life. I will send her messages every day from now on to try to ease the burden, in her mind. We cant imagine what is going on now in her mind and emotions.

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My sincere condolences and prayers, that is absolutely heartbreaking. Take care of each other.

gerrerd
gerrerd in reply to Hidden

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gerrerd, I am so very sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts go out to Susan, you and the family. My deepest sympathy.

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gerrerd in reply to Agora1

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Dear Ray, I honestly don't know what or how to tell you that I am very sorrowful for you, and with you. You have my utmost sympathy for your daughter. Please let me know if they're is anything I can do. You & your daughter are in my prayers. I grieve with you & you lived over this loss. I hope & pray that you have continued peace in your life. Very sorry for your loss.

Take care friend and Peace.

Rebekah ~

Thank you

I am so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.

gerrerd
gerrerd in reply to Tiredinky

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Sorry for your loss.

Prayers to you and the rest of the family.

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gerrerd in reply to Michael8072

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I am so sorry for your loss. You, Susan and Sophie are in my prayers.

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gerrerd in reply to susanjo613

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hi gerrard that is really sad to hear.thoughts and prayers go out to all the family and sophies friends.may god bless you all.take care.

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gerrerd in reply to kenster1

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My condolences to you my Friend.

This is difficult, it is hard to see a reason for this.

Time will heal the brokenheart.

Sophie, with her wings, is resting.👼🏻

Susan, this grief is overwhelming but we pray for her strength.

Ray, we pray for trust and not despair. You have not been abandoned.

This community is broken today because your heart is broken. But we pray for comfort for Susan and you.

This community, shoulder to shoulder stand in unity and send peace that surpasses all understanding.

☮️❤️

gerrerd
gerrerd in reply to Elaine1963

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I’m so sorry for your loss. Only 20 years old and like you said, she had her whole life ahead of her. It’s unbelievable how life can change in an instant. My words fail me.

Your words said it all. God bless you Gerrerd. 🌹

Thank you

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