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whats the point of even continuing to live another minute in a life that has no purpose. I can't life to the fullest without something or someone stopping me. I feel encaged or trapped in my own little bubble where I barely get to experience the outside world. Teenagers/young adults my age have fun and go out. I cannot because im parents are strict and dont want to let me out day or night because they see me as a child. well If I can't go out and live life and im gonna be stuck inside all everyday for another 19 yrs or more then I dont deserve to live. theres honestly no point anymore of trying because im just a waste of a human being

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Never believe you are a waste!! You are special and you have so much to experience and give. I know it’s hard but start by asking your parents to go out with you even if it’s just to a movie. Try to find something that inspires you because there is so much. Take time to work on yourself and care for your own needs.

Do you attend school or work outside your home? Can you invite your friends to your home? Your parents may feel less protective if they know who you’re with...

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Im on summer vacation from college and no I don't have a job. My parents get uptight to whoever comes over.

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hypercat54

Hi you are 19 and legally an adult. Can you leave home? If you can't yet then you will be able to one day so look forward to that. x

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I always thought about leaving my house but I have no job or no money. For 3 years I've been trying to find a job and no one wants to hire me because I have no experience

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I am sorry you have parents like this… They might lock you indoor for your safe, but I think the real reason they are doing this is they are the person who live in anxious everyday. They think the world isn't safe, because their life experience taught them so. They never feel happy and peace, for them life is a cliff that you need to careful not to fall down.

Apulla, you are their child, but you know there's so much more in the world. Keep this in mind, and you must believe, one day you will be free, your parents couldn't stick to you forever, they will age.

Well, before that time arrive, life is still terrible as hell. I suggest if you can, find some indoor habits, read some books, write some story, learn to cook, draw, watch some ted... whatever what it is, find one.

We born in a different family from other normal people, so our life is not gonna to be normal just like others, we have no choice but to live on with our own way. I am sorry if this sound cruel and sad.

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Catahrina

i feel trapped too. i see no point in living when youre going to die anyways. whats the purpose lol :-/

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