My anxiety seems to have focused on obsessive thoughts about my marriage: whether I should end it. These are thoughts I don't want to have, but there they are. I'm in this cycle where I'm trying to decide if the thoughts are real or are just lies. I don't want to have them, but is that because they're truly what I want and I can't face it? Or are they just frightening thoughts that have settled on something that really frightens me. I love my husband, and he is being so supportive. He's an excellent person. Does anyone else have this type of pattern of thinking?