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Did not really know what I said here

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Idk what’s going on w me, my head and my body feels empty, sometimes I feel good and excited to change my life but then something in me tells me I can’t or that i don’t deserve it, skipped school today and everyone in my family bashed me for it, I don’t mind that bc I’m used to it but I just feel like such crap and I can’t get anything done today, I feel so helpless and dependent which I hate. Everyone lies, everyone cheats, why do I try so hard to be a good person when I could get what I want so much faster with a simple lie?

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I am the worst liar ever, I have so much anxiety when it comes to lying and I just don’t understand how ppl can get so far by lying but I can even lie about what I ate for breakfast lol

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Marshall64 in reply to sparkle314

The lying and cheating will catch up to those people eventually.

Do the right think because it is the right thing. You will have no regrets and you don't have to remember your lies.

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brightbronzexo

Yes trust me I know where your coming from! You don't know how many times I've heard "you have such a good heart, don't ever change ur heartis golden," blah blah, all from people who treated me like shit. Then I would look at their lives and think they are doing ok maybe I should just lie cheat and steal like they do Smh. I used to think what's the point ??? but people like US, people who are genuine and true we always win in tge end. Trust me

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sparkle314 in reply to brightbronzexo

💛 love this

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fauxartist

Not everyone lies and cheats, ...I was once told when I was a kid....'it's easier to tell the truth, there's less to remember'....lying to me is a choice...I don't like it....after living with a compulsive lier, I am soured on it. We have a little one here who picked up story telling, lying from another kid because she admired her. I told our little one....did you ever here the story of the boy who cried wolf....I told it to her...If you want to be taken seriously, and believed...don't lie about everything....compulsive lying is like taking in oxygen, you lie when you don't even need to not that there is really a need to lie...but eventually you'll run out of air when all the lying catches up with you....this is not a moral affirmation or anything like that...it's just good sense.

so catch yourself next time you want to tell a lie...just for a day...think of wanting to be believed...and how much more beneficial that would be.

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