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[just_here]

I'm 16 and my friend well I don't know what to call her now bc we were friends and now she doesn't answer my text. when I go to her house she tells her brother to tell me she's not home, but I know she is home I just heard her tell him to say that she's not home. I'm so worried bc I don't know what I did to make her do this to me. I feel like I did nothing last time we hung out was my birthday party and we were having fun she even came over my house to hang out some more than I walked her home.

I don't know what I did and I really want to know why my only friend would do this to me.

[just_here]

I did my Birthday was in January and its March. I asked people that know her is she ok and they say she's grate. I even saw her at the mall the same day I when to her houses. I know she would be there bc I saw on Snapchat she posted a video of her dog and when I told I, someone, I and her both know that i was going to her houses they told me that she was totally there bc they just when over there to drop off her jacket

[jkl5500 in reply to just_here]

Maybe you could ask those same people who know her if she is upset with you over something.

[just_here in reply to jkl5500]

I'll try that but i don't know what i could have done. Last time we hunged out on my b-day we did everything she wanted to do even though it was my b-day

[itsfine]

Hi there, I'm not much older than you and this has actually happened to me before where my best friend was mad for about two weeks with no reason. I agree that she is probably dealing with personal issues and might need some space. Maybe something really small happened that upset her but you don't know what it is; if so that is not your fault. My best advice is to either give her space and try to talk to her in a week or so or send her text just saying that you're still here for her whenever she is ready to talk. Best of luck!

[just_here]

I don't know nothing is going on at home bc i have been asking her friends and they said that she has been acting normal she even went to the mall with them the same day i went to her home, and i seen her at the mall when i said hi she literally RAN away from me. Maybe im being paranoid but i feel like i did something bad like im not fun anymore.

[lostgirl75]

It sounds like she isn't being a very good friend to you. I would move on leave her alone and make new friends once she sees you don't need her she may come back but it sounds like a game. Not a very nice one but she asked to be left alone so I would just do that. Don't let anyone tell you what to do there should be compromise. Just be yourself and things will work out.

[ReadableSG]

What I would do is ask her about it, and express your worry about what you did

[Rhody3333]

I'm sorry, I have been there, too. What I found out later is that I had tried too hard and pushed too hard. But, she had decided to move onto new friendships, for whatever reason. It was too late. But maybe if you accept where she's at, and leave her be, the two of you may reconnect in a few years. You never know. For now, keep getting out, be around other people, try to eat right, and focus on something else. You have to respect what she says she wants. Especially if she's running away from you. And she is.

[Sewcoolsue]

Well I’m a lot older than you, and sometimes I’ll write a paper letter and mail it! She just might be interested enough to open it if you contacted her this way. I’d keep it short, and just let her know you don’t understand why she hasn’t talked to you. Let her know you miss her and you’re sorry if you hurt her in some way. Then I would just let it be for a while.

You say she’s your only friend so that must hurt. But I agree with the other responder that maybe she is having some problems. It does sound like you didn’t do anything wrong. So hang in there, be hopeful, and pray.

That’s all you can do. 🙁🙏