My husband makes me afraid. He's always been loud and aggressive in every way but it seems to be worse. My stomach is always in knots and I dont want to come home from work because anything I do or say he make commentary or uses it against me later on. No, he's never hit me but sometimes I feel i'd rather be bit than barked at. I think I want to separate but then things are good then I change my mind. I feel like I should to to a professional. psychologist? I really dont want to be on medication for anxiety and such. I just need to be a better me.