Friends?

Right know I'm trying to deal with friends who turned out to be enemies. I'm losing friends one by one because of one friend. I'm falling apart and losing it.

[Aromley_]

Do you mean that they’re turning against you? If so I can relate to that.

[Hidden in reply to Aromley_]

yes their turning against me

[Aromley_ in reply to Hidden]

I feel your pain believe me, it sucks losing people you considered brothers/ sisters. I love the picture in your bio btw, you an anime fan?

[Hidden in reply to Aromley_]

yeah

[Aromley_ in reply to Hidden]

Cool me too

[Janieliza]

You may feel like you are falling apart but pls listen to me when I tell you that all friends if they love and support you will stay with you thro thick and thin...if they don't honey....pls don't waste you're time. Living with what we do is hard enough without losing our loved ones. Yes we are difficult to be friends with but my best friend who now lives in Texas(I'm in the United kingdom) has seen me up and down. I've pushed her away more times than I care to remember and I was my own worst enemy. It hurts when friends turn on you...turning ones back on someone is callous but half the time its bcas they dont know what to do...so instead of asking, they blank us. I know this only too well. Those who love you....will stay. Don't beat yourself up over this....you have enough to contend with looking after YOU. take care. J

[AnxiousCanadian511]

Sorry to hear, that is both frustrating and heart breaking. I’m 31, i’ve lost some friendships. I’ve mended fences, but i’ve also let friendships go. It’s hard to lose someone you once cared about, but in the end if they’re toxic, you’re doing yourself a favour. I’ve also developed new friendships over the years, you can too. Hang in there, things will get better.

[fauxartist]

there was a similar thing for me in my past where I hung out with a group of other couples that we played cards with, traveled, had pot luck dinners, I thought they were my friends until my partner and I broke up...you quickly find out many people you call friends are really just fair weather friends and acquaintances...real friends are there for you no matter what. And real friends I have found are very few and far between. And even then sometimes I found myself isolating even from them, but when I got out of my funk, they were still there. Those are friends.

[Eddie83]

Do you have any idea whether your hormone system (esp. thyroid and adrenals) is functioning correctly? Being hypo has horrible effects.

[comb]

I understand this feeling