I have been suffering from anxiety/depression for over 10 years and I am in the process of coming out of a terrible episode I had over the past year and I am struggling in how I should handle my friend who is now saying she is very anxious/depressed because her boyfriend of two years just broke up with her recently. She has been through a lot with losing her mother a few years back as well, I am just perplexed that I am her best friend but she doesn't want to be around me at all. She always tells me I am her best friend and yet this past friday she said she was meeting up with her old co-worker and couldn't meet up with me, and yesterday night she said she's too anxious/depressed to hang out. The anxious/depressed story would work if she didn't go out to meet up with an old co-worker the night before. I'm feeling slighted by her, and I am not trying to blame her or attack her I just don't know how to go about saying it's aggravating that she won't open up to me or come talk to me because I opened up a lot to her when I was struggling and know from going through an intensive out-patient program you're supposed to be around others. This has been happening a couple months, I am just feeling like the friendship is one-sided with her only being able to meet up when its convenient to her, that's why I don't really ask to hang out with her as much because the answer is usually no. I'm really just confused and don't know to go about the situation.