Annoyed

[Mamakat]

My fiancé didn’t listen to me now I’m beyond pissed. I ended up having to clean up a pile of glass because he refused to listen to me.

[Agora1]

Mamakat, life happens. It's okay to react with some anger but know that you will never be able to control his actions, only your reaction to his actions. A little tongue twister that is very true and may help in stopping your anxiety from blowing out of control. These little things in life are not worth getting upset over. We have to pick and choose our irritations in life in order to keep our stress levels down. x

[Windy101]

Breaking glass usually doesn't help anyone listen more. It makes them uncomfortable, maybe afraid, and they listen less. I'm so sorry you had a blow out with your fiance, but maybe some anger management would help. If you're fighting like that now, just wait until marriage. Being engaged is so much easier than being together for a lifetime.

Bottom line: we can't make anyone listen. And when you break a glass, yes, you have to clean it up.

I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, but breaking things is a form of domestic violence, and I urge you to talk to someone for your own safety and happiness.

My best wishes to you for all things good.

[Mamakat]

I didn’t break the glass he did he tried doing something on his own and the glass broke