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know it sounds crazy......but i listen to people in my clinics and when i meet them......to pick up their personalty and see if its a match or their horse....sounds crazy but it a big part of my job ..........very hard to explain as i have been doingt it so long....but these exercises are part of what i do .......sounds nuts im sure.....

senstive people..............are desirable ...in the arts..........not the other way around as scoiety does to us.........i watch and listen.............to people and watch for sesntive people

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What kind of horse would be good for anxious woman like me? I am sensitive too.

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one that others woudl pass up....hes too quiet...too nice.....either an old school masrter or.....a very quiet relaible horse...........although i have ridden hundreds...whe i ride for pleasure i want super quiet and super reliable.......temperment and forgiving.........i dont want to ride trhe super senstive one.........he or she is a perfomacne horse or violin...............i want soehtig bomb proof and quiet....a confficence bulider even at my level and age....i cnat affrod to come off.....

find a relaibel horse woman to help u...and find somehting rweal ly nice and quiet........then i can go there an dgroom or talk to them pet them or ....wehther i rdie eveyyd day or not..............not full of spirit ....thats jsut eh movies

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That is the kind of horse I need. You know Brig, I used to have a horse? He was just like me! Anxious all the time, quick to spook, fear of unfamiliar places and people, etc. We had an incredible bond together because we were so much alike. Well I really do miss him.....next month will be 2 whole years without him 😞 I think about him everyday.

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Boy I know exactly what u mean. It’s the bond

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Yes very strong bond

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Bless. R heart

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It’s hard without himI’m sure Can relate

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MMust be very hard to not have him over sir I’m very sorry don’t mind the typos I’m having problems with my phone take care I’m sure I’m sure you miss him Huge

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Thank you. It is very hard. I miss him everyday

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❤️

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