Not in a good place the now and me and my fiance havent been getting on too great. Had a lovely day with the wee one and my friend as we had been out shopping and for some lunch. I had to phone my dad to ask him to pick up my wee girl at school as we werent going to be back in time. I came home last night to a torn face fiance. He was so crabbit and was even moaning at the kids. The house was chaos and i just kept myself to myself. After bathing the wee man and giving him his supper i took him through to our bed to cuddle him in for a bit. My fiance then came through and told me that i couldnt just escape through the room and that i had hardly spoke to anyone all night. He was sitting on his phone and the kids were all writing their xmas lists so i thought i'd take the opportunity to chill for a bit. My fiance came through and told me to get a grip and be part of our family and to spend some time with my daughter. I came through and he started on me saying that it was terrible that i hadnt picked my daughter up from school and that i am selfish and only think of myself. And he then moaned at me for asking my friend to look after the wee boy as i had mg work placement at the school. I had originally got him to ask his mum and he let sip that his mum said she couldnt as she wasnt doing anything that was gonna benefit me. Looking after her own grandchild? He then went on to say that i 'am not there' and i need to get into family mode. When i told him to keep his opinions to himself he told me if he couldnt express worry about my daughter he wouldnt bother at all. My daughter tried to speak to him and he told her to go away and i lost it. I was then told that we are better going our separate ways and that he will leave on sunday. He then went to bed with my step son and left me to sleep on the couch. He then sent me a text asking if we should make our break up official on facebook. I told him that was the least of my worries and to do what he likes. He came through later and started moaning and i shouted at him. He then called me a looney and told me that i should be in ward 2 at our local hospital. He told me that i will be myself and i wont be able to cope and that he'll end up with our wee boy just like he wants as i'll have a breakdown. Am i over reacting or is this pure evil? He has anialated me as a mum for the last time. I am far fron perfect but i try. He says i need to put the kids first at all times and i feel that i do. I am with them all the time. Hes out 4-5 times a week after work and i do everything. Opinions please - brutally honest ones x
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