My own health is so much better but ... further in this drama that plays out with my 35 year old son, it's got to the point now where I have no choice but to virtually frog march him to his GP for absolutely every blood test going on the NHS. I think I have listed everything the GP can test for but would be so grateful if someone here could send me their list. Full Blood Panel, TSH, T4, T3, Vits B12, D, thyroid antibodies. Anything else possible on the NHS? He goes around in circles, can't think ahead, gets angry with me when I say he needs some medical help. When I was ill I begged for help. He ends up about every 2 weeks with zero money, so me, his father & a good friend of mine have been chucking money at him to make him 'go away'. I know his father & I have probably 'enabled' him (as a friend of my son's says) but he really does use extortion, emotional blackmail etc. For the last 7 months he's been going out with a really lovely girl, kind, not high maintenance, hard working, so my son can't be all bad. OMG I'm at my wits end with him, am convinced he's lacking in something, but he always blames something or somebody. Sorry a bit of a ramble but I'm somewhat emotional at the mo.