Pressie ideas?!

[DoingwhatIcan]

Hi all...

I need to pick your collective brain again!

Has anyone got any ideas for a birthday present for my dad??! He's in end stage PSP and can't move beyond small imprecise hand movements. We, as a family, have bought him endless cushions and wheat bags, foot massage things, photo frames, photo books... I'm running out of ideas! Any thoughts?!

Thank you!

[honjen43]

Chocolate buttons!Hugs

Jen xxx

[DoingwhatIcan in reply to honjen43]

Ahh sorry..I should have said... he's on a PEG so no food or drink.. Men are hard enough to buy for at the best of times

[Motts]

Towards the end my mom liked happy birthday balloons...Sending hugs.... Granni B

[Kasenda]

Spend as much time as you can with your dad and pamper him. I am sure that’s what my husband would have preferred to get from his children now that he is not able to enjoy his coffee, and chocolates ( also PEG fed) and he has everything he needs around him. You remind him of my daughter who loves her dad very much. He must be proud of you. Have a good birthday!😊

[DoingwhatIcan in reply to Kasenda]

So true, thanks kasenda

[AJK2001]

Can't beat spending time with the person and lots of hugs.But how about some nice toiletries - shower gel, aftershave.

Does he like to hold something or fidget - a twiddlemuff could be an idea

Does he get cold hands - a muff, rather than gloves works well

Would he enjoy a massage - get somebody to come to the house and give him a neck, hand, shoulder, lower leg massage.

I'm sure whatever you do, he will feel the love and enjoy his day. xxx

[Nanny857]

A nice hand cream or essential oil. My husband loved getting his hands massaged which we found calmed him whenever he got anxious.

Happy birthday to your dad. 🎈🎂

Lots of love Nanny857xx

[Willowden]

spacemasks.com

My mum enjoys these every now and then. Stuck some chilled music on and you both can relax together for 30 mins.

[DoingwhatIcan]

Thanks all! Spa day here we come!